Am I flirting with other boys?

Im dating someone so i need to know. I was in class and he said a joke and i just like put my hand on his shoulder while laughing. All of a sudden my friend makes a sudden comment ';Rachel you're such a flirt!'; and i was totally confused and embarassed by the comment. After the say was over i thought it over and wondered if i am? How do you know when you're being a flirt?Am I flirting with other boys?
No.Am I flirting with other boys?
today it seems like if a girl even accidently puts her hand on a guy anywhere its flirting. If you have no feelings for the guy don't worry about it



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Is your friend male or female? If it's a she, then she's probably jealous and likes the guy you were with! If it's a he, he probably likes you! Don't let him/her get you down. You didn't intend to flirt, don't be upset by it. Have a laugh and have fun with other guys. I always do. Don't feel guilty, laugh it off. It's not like you kissed him! Just try not to touch other guys! Breaking the touch barrier a lot suggests you're a flirt, but there's no definite rules for being one. A flirt tends to play guys, tug at their hearts and make out that she likes them, but really she's with that with loads of others! Don't let one little comment bring you down.

If your friend says that again, laugh. Say ';Oh ___, what is your problem? You know I don't have feelings for (guy). Do you have feelings for (guy)? Oh my god, do you?';

She'll soon shut up.
well that can be taken as friendly or flirty , but it is a little flirty so yes your being flirtatious but not purposely, you dont know until someone tells you i guess
What you did could be construed as flirting, but also just being friendly. It's not how your friend sees your actions, but how you intended them and how he responded to them.

You were just sharing a funny moment, nothing else, and reaching out to touch his shoulder, is most likely what any guy would do as well, more of a pat on his back for a funny story.

So, most girls and guys, flirt for a few reasons, because they like the person, or want to get to know them better, and perhaps start a more intimate relationship with them. As you were just being friendly, with no other intentions in mind, you were certainly not flirting.
from my point of view this is flirting. Try not to be a flirt. you know when you flirt when theirs any touching involved with another guy
maybe you were being abit over friendly or something ?
no your not a flirt u cant talk to anyone without being a flirt now a days maybe your friend is jealous of how you get on with the boy maybe she likes him
It's tough to know. Sometimes you just do something awkward that you don't think about, like putting your hand on his shoulder. It doesn't mean you do that kind of thing all the time. Your friend might be assuming something she doesn't know, or maybe she's just socially awkward. ;)



But if you really like who you're dating, you won't flirt with other guys- so if you think you are, it's time to rethink your relationship. Hope this helps!
That IS flirting!!!!! When u are talking and u are touching a guy!!!!!
No, I do not know why people always think that! I mean, females and males could just be friends instead of girlfriends and boyfriends, could they not? I know I have a lot of guy friends and I do not flirt much.

If your friend is trying to embarrass you, then shrug it off, because if you know you are not a sL ut then you are not.