Sunday, December 11, 2011

How can I keep myself from flirting with everyone?

So my boyfriend gets really angry with me because I apparently ';flirt'; with everyone. I don't even notice that I'm doing it, it's really just my personality, I'm a friendly/outgoing person. My boyfriend seems to think that I intentionally flirt with boys in front of him, but I don't! Any ways I can learn to notice when I'm flirting so I can stop?How can I keep myself from flirting with everyone?
Well Shelby, it sounds like he is simply insecure. Maybe you are an outgoing person and he takes that as flirting. I think the real problem is him and his possible jealousy/insecurity. Talk to him about this, maybe you can find the root of the problem. I mean, you can't just not talk to anyone if you do it all the time.



On the other hand:

You could have a self-esteem problem. From your picture you look like a beautiful girl, but maybe you don't feel that way. You could flirt with guys because you like the attention? Maybe your boyfriend doesn't tell you that you're pretty? Or maybe he doesn't do the things he did in the beginning of the relationship? Either case, you need to talk to him about this, present your side.How can I keep myself from flirting with everyone?
How can I keep myself from flirting with everyone?



Maybe it's not you.



Maybe your boyfriend needs to take a moment and grow up and act like an adult.



It's him not you.



I've seen this attitude since I was in high school. I guess some things never change.



In this situation it's always been the guys problem and not the girls.



Everytime you see him even speak to a female accuse him of flirting. That will be a fun game.
Be yourself. Your boyfriend needs to learn to be more secure.
don't go out. or don't talk to any other guys. or don't get too drunk.

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