Every single friend I've ever had has said ';god charlotte, you're such a flirt!';. But I swear to god I never realise it! it's so frustrating to try and stop doing something that comes so naturally and you don't even realise your doing. I got in big trouble with my friends last year because I was supposidly 'flirting' with one of their boyfriends. They didn't talk to me for ages but after a while we all got back together. now when i'm with them and they talk to guys i'm just quiet because I don't know if they'll disown me again if they think i'm flirting with their crush. So is there any skill to NOT flirt?How can I talk to boys, and not flirt?
Flirting is an ego-booster for the one flirting. It's like you're wanting them to notice you and get the hots for you. So actually, flirting is a cover up for a lack of self confidence.How can I talk to boys, and not flirt?
The upside to this problem is that you're probably gorgeous and your friends are worried about you talking to their guys because of that. Be careful about the way you dress and how you present yourself. Don't wear things that are revealing, and try not to even touch your hair while you're looking at them or talking to them because that can easily be taken as flirting. Watch your facial expressions as well.
Minimize eye contact. When you make a lot of eye contact while talking to a guy that can seem flirty. Same goes for physical - don't brush up against him as that sends signals of flirtatious intent.
u dont have to touch on them at all. u dont have b eall on them. just treat them as their girls. matter fact ifu have to. in ur head tell urseld their gay so talk to them normal. and just pay attention to yourself...
i mean...
u just gotta b aware of urself
Don't smile and act all cheery when you talk to people.
do wut u want, their jelous. who cares if they dont talk 2 u. its not thier bf.
Talk to them as if they're your brother..
dont flirt or smile or show emotion.
WHAT THE HECK DO U SAY!?!?!?!?!?!?
Don't smile... learn to be cynical and mean... don't be yourself!!... sounds pretty silly hey
truth
hahaa this is a unique question!
but honestly ive delt with the same problem---maybe not to your extent though... this is going to sound corny, but here it goes: if you put your mind to it, theres nothing that can hold you back from achieving it!
just be extreamly concience of your body language. do you automatically kick one leg up and lean against the wall or lockers when you talk to guys? do you stand closer to them than other girls usually would? do you play around with their hair, etc...??
ask your friends what you do that is so ';flirtatious'; and hold that feature back when your talking to cirtain guys!
i hope this helped at all and good luck!
Hi Charlotte! Its SALLY%26lt;3! I read your problem and I think that I can help you out!!!
1- make sure that your friends understand that you are your own self and you should be able to live free and do whatever YOU want. It is none of their business if you like or even if you don't like a boy but just want to talk.
2- find a common interest...ask him if he likes certain things. It will help a lot.
3- if it isn't going well, find someone else to talk to.
4- if it is going well, ask him to get together sometime...not as a date unless you like him or unless he asks you first.
5- make sure that you really want to go through with it.
6- hopefully you can become friends or even a COUPLE!!! ahhh how cute!!! jk!
HOPE IT WORKS!!! GOOD LUCK AND BEST WISHES!!!
SALLY%26lt;3
OK, then the first thing is to get a boyfriend of your own so then you can talk to him ...and more...enough nobody will worry.
I'd say you may flirt a bit but it might be more that you are comfortable talking to boys. Quite often young girls don't think they know how to talk to a boy and get all freaked. When they see you they think you must be flirting when actually it is talking.
Next when it is some guy you are not wanting to flirt with first thing is to not touch. Are you touching them...innocently...hugging them? That can be thougth of as a flirt.
Try these things and life should be good.
Sunday, November 21, 2010
How do you flirt with a boy?
I thought I knew and I thought I was flirting with this boy (just like he asked me to do - he said he didn't get the feeling that I liked him. . ) so I need to know how to flirt with him cuz apparently I'm doing something wrong.
(we're not going out, we like each other and he's waiting two weeks to decide whether or not he wants to go out with me or move on. . )How do you flirt with a boy?
okay you have a time limit...? GROW UP
can you say desperate?How do you flirt with a boy?
just say him
kiss me
and f u ck me
dont play football with others sentiments , will be really very dangerous for u.
dont flirt plz if u really like anyone it really hurts
Find out what they're like, their sense of humour, interests, and such and just play with them a little. You can poke fun, kid around, do whatever. There really aren't rules for flirting.
relax flick ur hiar find out his interest chill wif his frdz there u go!
lol okay, well we all flirt in different ways, my way of flirting (which totally works for me) is this...
1) Always try to wear your hair down, ponytail just means that you wanna friends
2) Only apply mascara to your top lashes, you may not notice the differece it makes but it really does.
3) Dont get too worked up trying to dress pretty and girly if thats not how you really are, it just creates lies in the 'relationship' and besides most guys like girls who just act like thenselfs
This last one isnt for everyone, or every guy, It works for me though, i try to act like them. I play around, throw play punches. To the guys that i know that think its quote: ';sexy'; for a ';chick'; to be into Sports and Cars and all that guy junk. But in my defence, i Am like them im totally not a girlie girl...
well anyways i kinda got off topic there i hope i helped ya out!
GL with the lucky guy!
if he's giving you a time limit, and you have to prove yourself to him then don't waste your time even if you like him. that just means he's playing with your heart.
but as for the flirting question, be yourself, laugh, poke fun in a nice way, flick your hair, smile, talk about the same interests, compliment him [which makes his male ego much bigger and safer] and just... you know, care-free gestures.
but i advise you to stay away. he sounds a little like someone you'd date in the day, dump, get back together the same day, and dump the following six minutes.
it's possible, it happened to my friend.
but good luck for you.
You shouldnt have to flirt with him
For him to actually realize if he likes you
That means he wants to knoe how far youll go
when yall are together.
he wants to knoe how much you will do when you're with him
And if he needs two weeks
Then just walk away
No person deserves to be Doubted.
Ok well, he sounds like hes really not that into you if hes waiting to weeks two decide. I mean, how would a relationship go, if he is already setting time limits for you. (that's just my opinion)
Anyways, flirting comes from the heart. It's not anything you can be just like be trained to flirt. Half the time I don't even realize when im flirting. The only tips i can give you is smile, a lot. Laugh, joke around, and just have fun. Maybe if you have to try to flirt with him, he might not really be the right one for you....
Good Luck!
Smile, Laugh at his stupid Jokes
or just be yourself
Just remember it's not outside it counts, what's inside.
smile
(we're not going out, we like each other and he's waiting two weeks to decide whether or not he wants to go out with me or move on. . )How do you flirt with a boy?
okay you have a time limit...? GROW UP
can you say desperate?How do you flirt with a boy?
just say him
kiss me
and f u ck me
dont play football with others sentiments , will be really very dangerous for u.
dont flirt plz if u really like anyone it really hurts
Find out what they're like, their sense of humour, interests, and such and just play with them a little. You can poke fun, kid around, do whatever. There really aren't rules for flirting.
relax flick ur hiar find out his interest chill wif his frdz there u go!
lol okay, well we all flirt in different ways, my way of flirting (which totally works for me) is this...
1) Always try to wear your hair down, ponytail just means that you wanna friends
2) Only apply mascara to your top lashes, you may not notice the differece it makes but it really does.
3) Dont get too worked up trying to dress pretty and girly if thats not how you really are, it just creates lies in the 'relationship' and besides most guys like girls who just act like thenselfs
This last one isnt for everyone, or every guy, It works for me though, i try to act like them. I play around, throw play punches. To the guys that i know that think its quote: ';sexy'; for a ';chick'; to be into Sports and Cars and all that guy junk. But in my defence, i Am like them im totally not a girlie girl...
well anyways i kinda got off topic there i hope i helped ya out!
GL with the lucky guy!
if he's giving you a time limit, and you have to prove yourself to him then don't waste your time even if you like him. that just means he's playing with your heart.
but as for the flirting question, be yourself, laugh, poke fun in a nice way, flick your hair, smile, talk about the same interests, compliment him [which makes his male ego much bigger and safer] and just... you know, care-free gestures.
but i advise you to stay away. he sounds a little like someone you'd date in the day, dump, get back together the same day, and dump the following six minutes.
it's possible, it happened to my friend.
but good luck for you.
You shouldnt have to flirt with him
For him to actually realize if he likes you
That means he wants to knoe how far youll go
when yall are together.
he wants to knoe how much you will do when you're with him
And if he needs two weeks
Then just walk away
No person deserves to be Doubted.
Ok well, he sounds like hes really not that into you if hes waiting to weeks two decide. I mean, how would a relationship go, if he is already setting time limits for you. (that's just my opinion)
Anyways, flirting comes from the heart. It's not anything you can be just like be trained to flirt. Half the time I don't even realize when im flirting. The only tips i can give you is smile, a lot. Laugh, joke around, and just have fun. Maybe if you have to try to flirt with him, he might not really be the right one for you....
Good Luck!
Smile, Laugh at his stupid Jokes
or just be yourself
Just remember it's not outside it counts, what's inside.
smile
How to flirt with a boy without being obvious?
well i really like him but i think he likes me too so i just wanted to know how to flirt with him alot and leaving him wanting more? please helpHow to flirt with a boy without being obvious?
How about you don't play games and just straight out ask him if he does?How to flirt with a boy without being obvious?
laugh at his jokes, touch him (like his arm), look him in the eyes, take him with you or make him go with you( works well if you still in school sorry if your like thirty), also be playfull
laugh with him, always have a smile in your face, try to gain confidence so that way things may change a bit, play with him have a good time one thats really good tease him
How about you don't play games and just straight out ask him if he does?How to flirt with a boy without being obvious?
laugh at his jokes, touch him (like his arm), look him in the eyes, take him with you or make him go with you( works well if you still in school sorry if your like thirty), also be playfull
laugh with him, always have a smile in your face, try to gain confidence so that way things may change a bit, play with him have a good time one thats really good tease him
How do i get a boyfriend?
i'm in seventh grade and have been single for a long time. all my friends are always hanging out with their boyfriends and crap so i feel soo left out. i flirt with boys all the time but they never seem to give in. i'm looking for a christian boy in particular but they ';dont believe in realtionships at this age';. it's not like i'm butt ugly or anything. the only guys that like me are really weird and i dont like them back. what do i do?How do i get a boyfriend?
well you are in 7th grade. you dont really need to be dating and some people might not have found out that they're gay
although i'm not gay so i have no idea if i'm correct.
and also, i started dating at 7th grade and it was nothing serious at all, it's not really something you need to worry about at the moment.How do i get a boyfriend?
just find someone
^ wow that chick is retarded
are u....a ....guy??
IDK
you're too selective man.
relax..appreciate who's attracted to you.
better than me man...when i try for someone, that someone runs away..damn.
okay okay...i'm straight alright :)
a lot of guys don't come out 'till they are older. i am christian. a lot of christians don't believe in homosexual relationships, but even though i am christian i believe u shud be with ANYONE who makes u happy. i know gay, bi, and lesbian christians but the thing is its not as common or the won't admit to it. its hard to get in a relation ship because a lot of boys are still in denial or embarassed. relationships don't last long at that age anyway hun. trust me i'm a 9th grader and never had a bf, but everyone is breaking up and getting hurt. just wait for the right guy to come alone. i'm sure he will make u very happy. good luck%26lt;3
dont worry girl well your pics a guy so.. i hope yer a girl. anyway its hapened me before i liked christian boy and he isnt like that well i say they can suck it up. Don't assume its all the guys probblem to ask you out. THey get nervouse to if you can pull off the courage ask them out instead.
i say you should go out there and just have fun and i'm sure someone will notice you. Be more outgoing, talking to anyone, thats what i do and it works. don't let some people answering your question get you down or mad your just being your self and they should except you for what you are. i wish you the best of luck and i use to be in your situation and believe someone will come in time
You say your Christian, right?
My pastor always tell us the 3 Ms...
Master, Mission, Mate...
Have you asked your self if u accomplish your 2 Ms? that your ready to find your mate?
Dear all you have to do is wait for the right time...the right person...the right love...
flirt. see who your intrested in. hang out with them often to build a relationship. im in 7th grade to. i dont know how u feel cuz i have a bf but i know how my friends feel that dont have a br or gf. they feel like **** and are being left out. its cool to try to get a guy but remember, dont just date the guy cuz you feel apart of something or popular. date him cuz you really like him.
hope i helped! :D
slow down, n really wait for someone great to come around=)
dont be so influenced by everyone around you.
its ok to not have a bf yet, it'll come
besides relationships are so superficial at the age they wont work anyways. your not missing anything. just relax and be yourself, have fun and dont be so off put by everyone LoL try something new......get out there, you've got plenty of time to develop a type. but how will you ever know if you dont try new things.
and dont let anyone make you feel anything but good about yourself. you are very brave to be so honest about yourself at such a young age=)
youre a guy and you want a guy eww
well you are in 7th grade. you dont really need to be dating and some people might not have found out that they're gay
although i'm not gay so i have no idea if i'm correct.
and also, i started dating at 7th grade and it was nothing serious at all, it's not really something you need to worry about at the moment.How do i get a boyfriend?
just find someone
^ wow that chick is retarded
are u....a ....guy??
IDK
you're too selective man.
relax..appreciate who's attracted to you.
better than me man...when i try for someone, that someone runs away..damn.
okay okay...i'm straight alright :)
a lot of guys don't come out 'till they are older. i am christian. a lot of christians don't believe in homosexual relationships, but even though i am christian i believe u shud be with ANYONE who makes u happy. i know gay, bi, and lesbian christians but the thing is its not as common or the won't admit to it. its hard to get in a relation ship because a lot of boys are still in denial or embarassed. relationships don't last long at that age anyway hun. trust me i'm a 9th grader and never had a bf, but everyone is breaking up and getting hurt. just wait for the right guy to come alone. i'm sure he will make u very happy. good luck%26lt;3
dont worry girl well your pics a guy so.. i hope yer a girl. anyway its hapened me before i liked christian boy and he isnt like that well i say they can suck it up. Don't assume its all the guys probblem to ask you out. THey get nervouse to if you can pull off the courage ask them out instead.
i say you should go out there and just have fun and i'm sure someone will notice you. Be more outgoing, talking to anyone, thats what i do and it works. don't let some people answering your question get you down or mad your just being your self and they should except you for what you are. i wish you the best of luck and i use to be in your situation and believe someone will come in time
You say your Christian, right?
My pastor always tell us the 3 Ms...
Master, Mission, Mate...
Have you asked your self if u accomplish your 2 Ms? that your ready to find your mate?
Dear all you have to do is wait for the right time...the right person...the right love...
flirt. see who your intrested in. hang out with them often to build a relationship. im in 7th grade to. i dont know how u feel cuz i have a bf but i know how my friends feel that dont have a br or gf. they feel like **** and are being left out. its cool to try to get a guy but remember, dont just date the guy cuz you feel apart of something or popular. date him cuz you really like him.
hope i helped! :D
slow down, n really wait for someone great to come around=)
dont be so influenced by everyone around you.
its ok to not have a bf yet, it'll come
besides relationships are so superficial at the age they wont work anyways. your not missing anything. just relax and be yourself, have fun and dont be so off put by everyone LoL try something new......get out there, you've got plenty of time to develop a type. but how will you ever know if you dont try new things.
and dont let anyone make you feel anything but good about yourself. you are very brave to be so honest about yourself at such a young age=)
youre a guy and you want a guy eww
How to flirt in high school?
How can i flirt with this boy i like in school? ideas please (: xHow to flirt in high school?
well first establish if he is really your type.. In highschool some people can be SUPER shallow and it sucks. Try shareing common interests and subtle flirts like asking him to smell your..perfume or something. Try not to be overbearing/creepy/annoying just keep his attention like trying to keep in touch every few days. Get his number and give him yours and see if he texts
good lucka scottish name
well first establish if he is really your type.. In highschool some people can be SUPER shallow and it sucks. Try shareing common interests and subtle flirts like asking him to smell your..perfume or something. Try not to be overbearing/creepy/annoying just keep his attention like trying to keep in touch every few days. Get his number and give him yours and see if he texts
good luck
WhY Wont any Hot Guy Ask Me Out?
Ok people I dont get why i dont have a b-f i mean all my friends say i have sucha pretty face and i dont wear much make up most of the time i dont even wear make up and if i do i wear mascara,a bit of blush and lip gloss boys flirt wit me Alot! and the only ones that ask me out are the random guys in the school hallway that are kinda cute but it's more like hitting on me and i dont want to be with a guy that likes me for the wrong reasons.. So yea im pretty hot! SO WHY DONT I HAVE A BOYFRIEND!
btw im not stuck up or conceided or anything.
im sooo nice, and pretty outgoing. im SUPER funny too and i love making people laugh. and im a little weird and umm unique.
i use to have like nooo self esteem but now im older and confident but im starting to go back to how i use to be in middle school.WhY Wont any Hot Guy Ask Me Out?
u ask a guy outWhY Wont any Hot Guy Ask Me Out?
you're prob too nice... be an asshole sometimes and see what happens
It's probably because you're annoying.
Talk and get to know the hot guys, and always remember, anything is possible - it's in your hands.
Good luck.
Maybe they just like flirting with you and think your not datable material. if your always flirting with people that can be a turnoff
Well, first of all, stop bragging. Lol, second of all, they might not want to ask you out because of all those guys that ask you out? Or they're not interested into you at all. You can't make ';hot'; guys like you, and it's not all about the looks. :/
maybe you should be a little more conceited. or maybe the guys are scared to ask you out because your too nice and if you say no, that would make their rep. look bad.
maybe the boys dont want to get in a relationship, if your young, then why should you be tied down with someone. Im no hippie but free love isnt such a bad idea for young people, its only when your older and settled down that you can look for a long term life partner :)
if your desperate, and as pretty as you say you are then you can ask the 'fit' boys out :)
you could always ask them yourself if it means that much to you.
if you aren't prepared to do something about it then stop complaining
btw im not stuck up or conceided or anything.
im sooo nice, and pretty outgoing. im SUPER funny too and i love making people laugh. and im a little weird and umm unique.
i use to have like nooo self esteem but now im older and confident but im starting to go back to how i use to be in middle school.WhY Wont any Hot Guy Ask Me Out?
u ask a guy outWhY Wont any Hot Guy Ask Me Out?
you're prob too nice... be an asshole sometimes and see what happens
It's probably because you're annoying.
Talk and get to know the hot guys, and always remember, anything is possible - it's in your hands.
Good luck.
Maybe they just like flirting with you and think your not datable material. if your always flirting with people that can be a turnoff
Well, first of all, stop bragging. Lol, second of all, they might not want to ask you out because of all those guys that ask you out? Or they're not interested into you at all. You can't make ';hot'; guys like you, and it's not all about the looks. :/
maybe you should be a little more conceited. or maybe the guys are scared to ask you out because your too nice and if you say no, that would make their rep. look bad.
maybe the boys dont want to get in a relationship, if your young, then why should you be tied down with someone. Im no hippie but free love isnt such a bad idea for young people, its only when your older and settled down that you can look for a long term life partner :)
if your desperate, and as pretty as you say you are then you can ask the 'fit' boys out :)
you could always ask them yourself if it means that much to you.
if you aren't prepared to do something about it then stop complaining
Help, Do I Have A Chance With Him?
Right well, i need your help.
i like this las (kh) hes gorgeousssss right, well hes going out with this lass lauren and they never speak, me and kh are bestfriends we sit next to eachother in tutor, and we talk alot, and he says he thinks im pretty and that sort of thing, my friends think hes too good for me , but i think hes way too good for me, what do you think i can do, i obviously cant tell him how i feel now because of lauren but when/if they break up do you think i should tell him how i feel, everyone says i should but i really dont know??
Also another thing, how do boys flirt what will they do? Like Stare In Your Eyes or what ???
please answer %26lt;3333
xxxHelp, Do I Have A Chance With Him?
That was pretty damn mean of your friends if I'm honest.
And to be frank..if he did cheat on his girlfriend and get with you, does that not make you think that's he's likely to do the same thing with you when you're together? Sorry to put a downer on it, but it's a possibility.
I would wait till he's single. I know it's probably hard cause you want him, but he'll be glad that you've waited until you've got the green light. But yeah, it sounds like you've got a chance, you seem to get on well :)
Just keep the friendship with him going, it'll get stronger and stronger and hopefully one day it will turn into more. You never know, he may realise that you're the one that he's after, and end it with Lauren. Hahah. Anyway, hope I've helped.Help, Do I Have A Chance With Him?
Your friends sound like crappy friends if they tell you that somebody is too good for you. Don't believe that for a second. Everyone is equal, it's not a matter of being ';better than someone';, it's a matter of being with somebody who you connect with. However, as you said, he does have a girlfriend... so remain strictly friends for now. If he'll cheat on her with you, or leave her for you, who says he won't leave you or cheat on you with somebody else? Guys flirt in a number of ways, sometimes they are soo obvious about it, and sometimes the point doesn't get across at all. Basically I think he'll just try to talk to you a lot, and if there's nothing he has to say to you, he'll come up with something silly to try and make you laugh. He'll go out of his way to see you. He'll make fun of you (but in a good humored way).
seriously, friends dont say that. i think you should wait for a few more signs from him just to be sure hes flirting, then tell him how you feel. if things go your way, he might leave his gf for you! good luck honey!
stop listening to ur frndzzzzzzz............what kind of people they r to tell u that he is too gud for u!
anywayzzzzzzzz your frndz r nt an issue for now!
may be u never flirt with him the other gul does!
give him that eye luk! play with ur hair! dress well for him!
u have a guy who is ur best frnd!
make him ur bf!
flirt with him give him an impression tht u like him!
everything is fair in love n war!
dont let him fall for other gals!
when they break up, you shouldnt tell him how you feel, but you should stay close with him. Flirt with him but dont make it obvious. Take him out.
Not all boys flirt the same. But if he stares you straight in your eyes then ya he is most def flirting.
Well girl i feel ur pain! the same thing is happening 2 me except we r more like brother and sister. i known him since the fourth grade and he and his family just moved where i live. he has a gf which they been going out 4 6 months. sometimes we make out and everything and its hard because i know he has a girl but i do it anyway. my friends said they would kick his butt if he don't say how he feels but im taking it as a yes. if i were u which i kinda am i would tell how you feel. that's what i did he didn't say anything but with the sexy smiles and the making out i think he does like me, he is still with his girl but i think its because he don't want 2 break up with her over myspace
i like this las (kh) hes gorgeousssss right, well hes going out with this lass lauren and they never speak, me and kh are bestfriends we sit next to eachother in tutor, and we talk alot, and he says he thinks im pretty and that sort of thing, my friends think hes too good for me , but i think hes way too good for me, what do you think i can do, i obviously cant tell him how i feel now because of lauren but when/if they break up do you think i should tell him how i feel, everyone says i should but i really dont know??
Also another thing, how do boys flirt what will they do? Like Stare In Your Eyes or what ???
please answer %26lt;3333
xxxHelp, Do I Have A Chance With Him?
That was pretty damn mean of your friends if I'm honest.
And to be frank..if he did cheat on his girlfriend and get with you, does that not make you think that's he's likely to do the same thing with you when you're together? Sorry to put a downer on it, but it's a possibility.
I would wait till he's single. I know it's probably hard cause you want him, but he'll be glad that you've waited until you've got the green light. But yeah, it sounds like you've got a chance, you seem to get on well :)
Just keep the friendship with him going, it'll get stronger and stronger and hopefully one day it will turn into more. You never know, he may realise that you're the one that he's after, and end it with Lauren. Hahah. Anyway, hope I've helped.Help, Do I Have A Chance With Him?
Your friends sound like crappy friends if they tell you that somebody is too good for you. Don't believe that for a second. Everyone is equal, it's not a matter of being ';better than someone';, it's a matter of being with somebody who you connect with. However, as you said, he does have a girlfriend... so remain strictly friends for now. If he'll cheat on her with you, or leave her for you, who says he won't leave you or cheat on you with somebody else? Guys flirt in a number of ways, sometimes they are soo obvious about it, and sometimes the point doesn't get across at all. Basically I think he'll just try to talk to you a lot, and if there's nothing he has to say to you, he'll come up with something silly to try and make you laugh. He'll go out of his way to see you. He'll make fun of you (but in a good humored way).
seriously, friends dont say that. i think you should wait for a few more signs from him just to be sure hes flirting, then tell him how you feel. if things go your way, he might leave his gf for you! good luck honey!
stop listening to ur frndzzzzzzz............what kind of people they r to tell u that he is too gud for u!
anywayzzzzzzzz your frndz r nt an issue for now!
may be u never flirt with him the other gul does!
give him that eye luk! play with ur hair! dress well for him!
u have a guy who is ur best frnd!
make him ur bf!
flirt with him give him an impression tht u like him!
everything is fair in love n war!
dont let him fall for other gals!
when they break up, you shouldnt tell him how you feel, but you should stay close with him. Flirt with him but dont make it obvious. Take him out.
Not all boys flirt the same. But if he stares you straight in your eyes then ya he is most def flirting.
Well girl i feel ur pain! the same thing is happening 2 me except we r more like brother and sister. i known him since the fourth grade and he and his family just moved where i live. he has a gf which they been going out 4 6 months. sometimes we make out and everything and its hard because i know he has a girl but i do it anyway. my friends said they would kick his butt if he don't say how he feels but im taking it as a yes. if i were u which i kinda am i would tell how you feel. that's what i did he didn't say anything but with the sexy smiles and the making out i think he does like me, he is still with his girl but i think its because he don't want 2 break up with her over myspace
OMG: this is a real big deal to me!?
My brother is going to be 16 in July. And his friend is currently.. I'm only 13 until next year.. His friend's name is DJ. I'm like in LOVE with DJ, I just don't know why I feel this way. I'm thinkin bout DJ like 24/7; and I think we're meant to be.. I don't know if I should wear tighter clothes, or make up or anything..? So really what I'm askin 4 is some advice on how to look better so, boys flirt with me and other girls get jealous..!OMG: this is a real big deal to me!?
Just be yourself, don't worry so much about getting boys, as there will be plenty of time for that when you are of age.OMG: this is a real big deal to me!?
be yourself is much better.
Don't Give Much Attention 2 Dem Try 2 Avoid Dem..Show Some Attitude
to old, sorry!
Maybe try lookin on rock-harmony? They have many compatable rocks on that site.
Truly Yours,
Mrs. Rock
aww your so cute XD when i was your age (i'm 17 in 3 months) i always wanted to be the good-looking one but i gave up in the end because i had a boyfriend when i was 12. aw your so sweeet...only 12 years old! sweetie i don't think DJ will ever ';love'; you but he'll see that you're a sweet lil girl. you are too young to understand what boys that age want, they don't ';fall in love'; with lil girls. i think if you wore tighter clothing DJ would think that its funny and that you're a bit ridiculous to be dressing like that at TWELVE! plus at that age tighter clothing won't look good on you, tight clothing is for older girls with boobs. i'd only just started my period at your age! you don't need to make the girls jealous, and make the boys flirt with you.....boys are very shy! and make-up wont make a difference, it will just make you look desperate/funny. when i was your age- all i wore on my face was glitter eyeshadow on my eyelids when i went to school discos! (that was back in '04) XD ahh the memories.
Just be yourself, don't worry so much about getting boys, as there will be plenty of time for that when you are of age.OMG: this is a real big deal to me!?
be yourself is much better.
Don't Give Much Attention 2 Dem Try 2 Avoid Dem..Show Some Attitude
to old, sorry!
Maybe try lookin on rock-harmony? They have many compatable rocks on that site.
Truly Yours,
Mrs. Rock
aww your so cute XD when i was your age (i'm 17 in 3 months) i always wanted to be the good-looking one but i gave up in the end because i had a boyfriend when i was 12. aw your so sweeet...only 12 years old! sweetie i don't think DJ will ever ';love'; you but he'll see that you're a sweet lil girl. you are too young to understand what boys that age want, they don't ';fall in love'; with lil girls. i think if you wore tighter clothing DJ would think that its funny and that you're a bit ridiculous to be dressing like that at TWELVE! plus at that age tighter clothing won't look good on you, tight clothing is for older girls with boobs. i'd only just started my period at your age! you don't need to make the girls jealous, and make the boys flirt with you.....boys are very shy! and make-up wont make a difference, it will just make you look desperate/funny. when i was your age- all i wore on my face was glitter eyeshadow on my eyelids when i went to school discos! (that was back in '04) XD ahh the memories.
I am a parent having trouble choosing between teaching my daughter sensitivity and ';being the grown up';...?
I want to begin by asking please not to lecture me. I am a very sensitive, caring, responsible parent/step-parent. All five of my kids, four step-children and one of my husband's and mine live with us and have for more than half of their lives. My oldest childrens' mother hasn't seen them a year and a half, with the exception of an unplanned hour and a half a little over a month ago. She moved away 3 years ago.
My middle daughter has lots of feelings about her mom, that she's expressed to her father privately, feelings about her mom and their relationship. She has feelings that she wishes she didn't have. She keeps every letter and picture her mother's ever send her pinned to her wall above her bed. And when she tells stories about her visits with any part of her mom's family, including her mom... she very whimsical and animated, especially about ';how much fun she had'; and ';how great it was';.
First and most importantly, I DO NOT want to dismiss these good memories she has, I always support her and the rest of our kids to have a relationship with their mom and NEVER speak poorly of their mom. That being said sometimes my daughter's stories hurt my and/or my husbands feelings and sometimes she says things that are hurtful. I know that someone's going tot read this and think I am a big whiner but I just need help dealing with these feelings so...
I am a blonde, for 3x yrs. Just this weekend, I went the salon for the first time in 4 years and had my hair colored and its a light brownish red color. As soon as I got home, my daughter said, ';momma said she died her hair red and now all the boys flirt with her...'; stupid I know but it stole my thunder and hurt my feelings. I put new pictures of my husband's daughters kids up, that the kids haven't seen in a year or so and my daughter said, ';who are they...'; but she knows what color her mother's daughter's tee shirts were when she saw them three years ago. She was also telling a story at dinner the other night about riding a 4 wheeler with her step dad and how much fun it was and what the weather was like and how muddy they got and who was there and that there were 36 ant piles inthe southwest corner of the house. I feel ashamed writing how my daughter's memories hurt my feelings but its just that it seems like she remembers everything about her mother who left her and diregards what we do for her everyday.
I am just looking for words of wisdom from other mothers or step moms who have had to handle similar issues. It breaks my heart to hear her tell these stories and see the emphasis put on these parts of her life because I know how much she really hurts when she's not telling the stories. Its like she does it so that she can put bandages on the wounds.I am a parent having trouble choosing between teaching my daughter sensitivity and ';being the grown up';...?
We always want what we can't have. When I was little, my father was pretty absentee. he only spent MAYBE an hour a week with us, tops. However, I was such a ';Daddy's Girl'; and did just like your step daughter is doing to you.
However, once I grew up, I came to realize who was actually there for me and who wasn't. Now, I talk to my father was whopping 2 times a year on the phone, and visit with him only on Christmas. Sad, really.
Once your daughter grows up, she'll realize who was there for her -- trust me. I'm a stepmother myself now, to an 8 year old who lives with me. He sees his mother maybe 3 hours a week, but he gushes over her a lot. She doesn't even want to see him, for Christ's sake! She makes excuses all the time, only visiting him maybe every few weekends, and practically jumps with joy if he says he wants to stay home instead of visiting her. It's heart breaking, but there is no doubt in my mind that when my son grows up, he'll know who was there for him and who helped him -- his Dad and Stepmom.
Allow your daughter to gush over her mother. Smile, and say ';That sounds like so much fun!'; Try not to be bitter -- your kindness and attention to her will pay off when she's older. You're the one raising her and I'm sure because of that she will shape up to be a lovely young woman.
Good luck.I am a parent having trouble choosing between teaching my daughter sensitivity and ';being the grown up';...?
shes just trying to keep her alive in her mind. she has nothing else to fall back on. essentially mom is ';dead'; as she knew her. if her mom was actually dead your probably wouldnt take it as personal.
its all she has to cling onto. every year as she gets older, shell become wiser, probably angry and take it out on you guys. the day will come when she understands who was there for her and thank you.
do your best to never let her know it bothers you. you may also want to open the conversation with her about her mom. she may feel your uncomfort even if shes never heard you speak about it and thats why she only shares w/ dad.
I am a single mother of an almost 12 year old son who has had an absent (seriously absent) father for most of his life. He acts like this on the rare occasions he gets to see his father and also when he gets the rare gift. I think I understand how you feel.
I do believe it is really important for children to feel that connection to their birth parents in divorce situations, because it's good for their psyche. You don't say how old she is.
But I think children do this when they're struggling between the reality of who their parent is and the fiction they want the parent to be. I also think that they work it out, eventually. Kids are pretty good at hurting our feelings anyway, aren't they? We get to be the grownups no matter what. Of course, we're not always perfect at it, and that teaches them about life, too.
I'm a step-mom to two girls who compare me incessantly to their mom. They are 13 and 9 (old enough to stop after being asked, in my opinion). I totally recognize that this is a sign of emotional damage in them, and I try to tolerate it as much as I can, but it's rude, especially when they compare me unfavorably. My cooking, my appearance, my accomplishments.etc,etc.etc. Eventually I grew tired of it and couldn't be patient anymore. I sat them both down and asked how they would like to be continuously compared to my daughter (who is a real achiever, athlete, student, etc.) and it was like a light bulb went off. We have had ONE follow-up conversation, but it seems to be pretty much resolved. Have you considered therapy for your daughter? You know as well as I do that this behavior is psychic pain.
It's a kind of ';the grass looks greener on the other side'; thing. Her visits to her mom should be memorable and enjoyable. She doesn't get to see her mom full time. For some reason or other, she was denied that.
';like she remembers everything about her mother who left her and diregards what we do for her everyday.';
No kid really thinks about the day to day things. I'm sure you didn't think much about the day to day things you did with your parents, but with friends and such on weekends, that was a blast.
Enjoy them with her. Think of it this way...she's sharing these with you. That means she thinks you are important to share them with. As for the hair color thing, the daughter found it amusing what her mother told her, and wanted you to get amused as well.
Good luck.
I think your daughter is try to make happy memories with her mother anyway she is hurting. I don't think she is intentionally trying to hurt you or your husband's feelings. I'm pretty sure she does some bragging about you and your husband when she is at her mother's.
Being a step mom I also hate to hear stories about ';momma did this... momma did that...'; I know exactly what you're talking about.
I have had to rationalize it and realize that they're not telling stories to hurt my feelings (or their father's) they are telling us about the fun they had. Of course we know about the fun they have when they're with us, so it would be semi-pointless for them to tell those stories...they're telling the ones that we haven't heard.
I've learned that if you act involved in the stories... for example saying things like ';Really?! that sounds fun!'; or ask questions, like how big was the 4 wheeler, did you go fast? Things like that- I'm not sure why, but it seems to put an end to them.
Basically once I made it clear (not directly by saying anything, but through my actions) that I wanted them to be involved with their mom and I was glad that they have fun with her and interested in it, etc. they seemed to not emphasize how much fun they had anymore. Of course there is the occasional story like today my step son told me that his mom uses the same hot rollers I do (which of course made me want to throw them away, haha!). It's no big deal though, try to welcome the stories and they'll start to dwindle.
It would have been helpful to know what age this little girl is but I am guessing she is about 10-12 years old. Of course she is all whimsical about her mom who really doesn't care about her but is going through the motions of being a far away parent and of course you are a little irritated with it as it seems you do all the work but she gets all the credit. I think there is a lesson to be learned for both of you. For her, she is not intentionally hurting you I do not believe as she is trying to find her identity and for some reason we think that our identity lies with our biological parents more than our parents that took care of us at that age (personal experience). So, you nees to sit down with her an dask if she feels as though you are that insignificant in her life and why you are asking. This may teach her a lesson. If it doesn't work than I would say she is older and intending on hurting you so therefore yo need to make her work for all she takes for granted. She can get small job and earn the things she likes to wear or things she likes to have until she can learn to appreciate all you and your husband do for her. For you, the lesson is that if you do not handle this like you are walking on egg shells you may cause even more turmoil for her either by stirring up feelings that she is already confused about or causing her to know what buttons to push to aggravate you. The other lesson you can learn is some girls are so hard to raise and are so dreamy that reality is somewhere of in the distance. They will very difficult to teach and they are very hard headed. They have to experience the tragedy once or more just to learn anything. Good luck. You are doing a great job!
hate to break it to ya, but having a step child sometimes can seriously suck. Some children just have issues. Some don't realize it, some do. I for instance have or had a 15 yr old step daughter, and she says things till this day out of spite, she's a very insecure lil child, who is constantly causing drama! I've never said it to her and I never would, but i sure let her mother know how I felt. That's neither here nor there though. I think you're doing a great job, considering the situation, and you've taken on 3 children to raise %26amp; love and they aren't even yours. I hope your husband realizes this. Perhaps he should be the one who sits down and tells his children just that. Step-kids are the biggest attention getters its not even funny. So glad Im out though. Best of Luck to you.
this is part of being a parent: your feelings come second.
i wish my mother had been this considerate....its seems like it is very important to you for your step daughter to be able to express herself ( for the good or bad)...and you are to be commended.
it may help if you and your husband talk this through and find a way to approach the child...and find a less verbal way for her to show her love for her mother.
i have to say...while the events seem minor to me...they may be major to the little one....can u accept that
As a step mom and a step child, I will answer this from both sides as best I can.
As a step child who's mother or father was out of the picture at some point in my life - she is hurting. It is killing her inside that her mom doesn't have much to do with her. She is probably wondering what flaw she has to be rejected by her, so on the rare occasion her mother acknowledges her, she clings to it. She will exaggerate her experience trying to fluff her own ego. Basically she makes it out that she had sooooo much fun because in that way it means her mom loves her. How could she and her mom have such a good time if she didn't really love her (in her mind). She may have had a horrible time, but she would never admit it to anyone. She may also think when she tells these stories about what a good time she had, that people will think better of her mom and thereby think she's a better kid. She is looking for love and acceptance.
Her steeling your thunder about your hair color was just another attempt at getting attention. It may have also made her feel important to do the ';reveal';. If you made the comment about men flirting with you because of your new dew (I'm sure in jest), it made her feel important that you shared that with her and she was able to share it with everyone else.
As the step mom, I would let it all go in one ear and out the other. As hard as this is on you, it's 10 fold on her. She feels lost. She doesn't need sensativity training. She isn't trying to hurt anyone, she is actually reaching out. Being a step mom, sometimes my tougue has blead from biting it so hard so I don't speek. I'm sure you are an excellent mom and step mom, I'm not judging you in the least. It is sometimes the hardest job in the world. But please don't take anything she says about her mom as a personal attack on you, because great step mom or not, she feels rejected by her biological mom. You may need to be extra patient with her, but in the end it will be worth it.
she needs to talk about her mom, i know how it makes you feel, but your the adult, and i hope you dont let her know how you feel. your daughter knows who takes care of her, who is there for her everyday, who really loves her. its you. and in time, it maybe a few years, she will realize that. but try not to take what she says to heart. good luck
My middle daughter has lots of feelings about her mom, that she's expressed to her father privately, feelings about her mom and their relationship. She has feelings that she wishes she didn't have. She keeps every letter and picture her mother's ever send her pinned to her wall above her bed. And when she tells stories about her visits with any part of her mom's family, including her mom... she very whimsical and animated, especially about ';how much fun she had'; and ';how great it was';.
First and most importantly, I DO NOT want to dismiss these good memories she has, I always support her and the rest of our kids to have a relationship with their mom and NEVER speak poorly of their mom. That being said sometimes my daughter's stories hurt my and/or my husbands feelings and sometimes she says things that are hurtful. I know that someone's going tot read this and think I am a big whiner but I just need help dealing with these feelings so...
I am a blonde, for 3x yrs. Just this weekend, I went the salon for the first time in 4 years and had my hair colored and its a light brownish red color. As soon as I got home, my daughter said, ';momma said she died her hair red and now all the boys flirt with her...'; stupid I know but it stole my thunder and hurt my feelings. I put new pictures of my husband's daughters kids up, that the kids haven't seen in a year or so and my daughter said, ';who are they...'; but she knows what color her mother's daughter's tee shirts were when she saw them three years ago. She was also telling a story at dinner the other night about riding a 4 wheeler with her step dad and how much fun it was and what the weather was like and how muddy they got and who was there and that there were 36 ant piles inthe southwest corner of the house. I feel ashamed writing how my daughter's memories hurt my feelings but its just that it seems like she remembers everything about her mother who left her and diregards what we do for her everyday.
I am just looking for words of wisdom from other mothers or step moms who have had to handle similar issues. It breaks my heart to hear her tell these stories and see the emphasis put on these parts of her life because I know how much she really hurts when she's not telling the stories. Its like she does it so that she can put bandages on the wounds.I am a parent having trouble choosing between teaching my daughter sensitivity and ';being the grown up';...?
We always want what we can't have. When I was little, my father was pretty absentee. he only spent MAYBE an hour a week with us, tops. However, I was such a ';Daddy's Girl'; and did just like your step daughter is doing to you.
However, once I grew up, I came to realize who was actually there for me and who wasn't. Now, I talk to my father was whopping 2 times a year on the phone, and visit with him only on Christmas. Sad, really.
Once your daughter grows up, she'll realize who was there for her -- trust me. I'm a stepmother myself now, to an 8 year old who lives with me. He sees his mother maybe 3 hours a week, but he gushes over her a lot. She doesn't even want to see him, for Christ's sake! She makes excuses all the time, only visiting him maybe every few weekends, and practically jumps with joy if he says he wants to stay home instead of visiting her. It's heart breaking, but there is no doubt in my mind that when my son grows up, he'll know who was there for him and who helped him -- his Dad and Stepmom.
Allow your daughter to gush over her mother. Smile, and say ';That sounds like so much fun!'; Try not to be bitter -- your kindness and attention to her will pay off when she's older. You're the one raising her and I'm sure because of that she will shape up to be a lovely young woman.
Good luck.I am a parent having trouble choosing between teaching my daughter sensitivity and ';being the grown up';...?
shes just trying to keep her alive in her mind. she has nothing else to fall back on. essentially mom is ';dead'; as she knew her. if her mom was actually dead your probably wouldnt take it as personal.
its all she has to cling onto. every year as she gets older, shell become wiser, probably angry and take it out on you guys. the day will come when she understands who was there for her and thank you.
do your best to never let her know it bothers you. you may also want to open the conversation with her about her mom. she may feel your uncomfort even if shes never heard you speak about it and thats why she only shares w/ dad.
I am a single mother of an almost 12 year old son who has had an absent (seriously absent) father for most of his life. He acts like this on the rare occasions he gets to see his father and also when he gets the rare gift. I think I understand how you feel.
I do believe it is really important for children to feel that connection to their birth parents in divorce situations, because it's good for their psyche. You don't say how old she is.
But I think children do this when they're struggling between the reality of who their parent is and the fiction they want the parent to be. I also think that they work it out, eventually. Kids are pretty good at hurting our feelings anyway, aren't they? We get to be the grownups no matter what. Of course, we're not always perfect at it, and that teaches them about life, too.
I'm a step-mom to two girls who compare me incessantly to their mom. They are 13 and 9 (old enough to stop after being asked, in my opinion). I totally recognize that this is a sign of emotional damage in them, and I try to tolerate it as much as I can, but it's rude, especially when they compare me unfavorably. My cooking, my appearance, my accomplishments.etc,etc.etc. Eventually I grew tired of it and couldn't be patient anymore. I sat them both down and asked how they would like to be continuously compared to my daughter (who is a real achiever, athlete, student, etc.) and it was like a light bulb went off. We have had ONE follow-up conversation, but it seems to be pretty much resolved. Have you considered therapy for your daughter? You know as well as I do that this behavior is psychic pain.
It's a kind of ';the grass looks greener on the other side'; thing. Her visits to her mom should be memorable and enjoyable. She doesn't get to see her mom full time. For some reason or other, she was denied that.
';like she remembers everything about her mother who left her and diregards what we do for her everyday.';
No kid really thinks about the day to day things. I'm sure you didn't think much about the day to day things you did with your parents, but with friends and such on weekends, that was a blast.
Enjoy them with her. Think of it this way...she's sharing these with you. That means she thinks you are important to share them with. As for the hair color thing, the daughter found it amusing what her mother told her, and wanted you to get amused as well.
Good luck.
I think your daughter is try to make happy memories with her mother anyway she is hurting. I don't think she is intentionally trying to hurt you or your husband's feelings. I'm pretty sure she does some bragging about you and your husband when she is at her mother's.
Being a step mom I also hate to hear stories about ';momma did this... momma did that...'; I know exactly what you're talking about.
I have had to rationalize it and realize that they're not telling stories to hurt my feelings (or their father's) they are telling us about the fun they had. Of course we know about the fun they have when they're with us, so it would be semi-pointless for them to tell those stories...they're telling the ones that we haven't heard.
I've learned that if you act involved in the stories... for example saying things like ';Really?! that sounds fun!'; or ask questions, like how big was the 4 wheeler, did you go fast? Things like that- I'm not sure why, but it seems to put an end to them.
Basically once I made it clear (not directly by saying anything, but through my actions) that I wanted them to be involved with their mom and I was glad that they have fun with her and interested in it, etc. they seemed to not emphasize how much fun they had anymore. Of course there is the occasional story like today my step son told me that his mom uses the same hot rollers I do (which of course made me want to throw them away, haha!). It's no big deal though, try to welcome the stories and they'll start to dwindle.
It would have been helpful to know what age this little girl is but I am guessing she is about 10-12 years old. Of course she is all whimsical about her mom who really doesn't care about her but is going through the motions of being a far away parent and of course you are a little irritated with it as it seems you do all the work but she gets all the credit. I think there is a lesson to be learned for both of you. For her, she is not intentionally hurting you I do not believe as she is trying to find her identity and for some reason we think that our identity lies with our biological parents more than our parents that took care of us at that age (personal experience). So, you nees to sit down with her an dask if she feels as though you are that insignificant in her life and why you are asking. This may teach her a lesson. If it doesn't work than I would say she is older and intending on hurting you so therefore yo need to make her work for all she takes for granted. She can get small job and earn the things she likes to wear or things she likes to have until she can learn to appreciate all you and your husband do for her. For you, the lesson is that if you do not handle this like you are walking on egg shells you may cause even more turmoil for her either by stirring up feelings that she is already confused about or causing her to know what buttons to push to aggravate you. The other lesson you can learn is some girls are so hard to raise and are so dreamy that reality is somewhere of in the distance. They will very difficult to teach and they are very hard headed. They have to experience the tragedy once or more just to learn anything. Good luck. You are doing a great job!
hate to break it to ya, but having a step child sometimes can seriously suck. Some children just have issues. Some don't realize it, some do. I for instance have or had a 15 yr old step daughter, and she says things till this day out of spite, she's a very insecure lil child, who is constantly causing drama! I've never said it to her and I never would, but i sure let her mother know how I felt. That's neither here nor there though. I think you're doing a great job, considering the situation, and you've taken on 3 children to raise %26amp; love and they aren't even yours. I hope your husband realizes this. Perhaps he should be the one who sits down and tells his children just that. Step-kids are the biggest attention getters its not even funny. So glad Im out though. Best of Luck to you.
this is part of being a parent: your feelings come second.
i wish my mother had been this considerate....its seems like it is very important to you for your step daughter to be able to express herself ( for the good or bad)...and you are to be commended.
it may help if you and your husband talk this through and find a way to approach the child...and find a less verbal way for her to show her love for her mother.
i have to say...while the events seem minor to me...they may be major to the little one....can u accept that
As a step mom and a step child, I will answer this from both sides as best I can.
As a step child who's mother or father was out of the picture at some point in my life - she is hurting. It is killing her inside that her mom doesn't have much to do with her. She is probably wondering what flaw she has to be rejected by her, so on the rare occasion her mother acknowledges her, she clings to it. She will exaggerate her experience trying to fluff her own ego. Basically she makes it out that she had sooooo much fun because in that way it means her mom loves her. How could she and her mom have such a good time if she didn't really love her (in her mind). She may have had a horrible time, but she would never admit it to anyone. She may also think when she tells these stories about what a good time she had, that people will think better of her mom and thereby think she's a better kid. She is looking for love and acceptance.
Her steeling your thunder about your hair color was just another attempt at getting attention. It may have also made her feel important to do the ';reveal';. If you made the comment about men flirting with you because of your new dew (I'm sure in jest), it made her feel important that you shared that with her and she was able to share it with everyone else.
As the step mom, I would let it all go in one ear and out the other. As hard as this is on you, it's 10 fold on her. She feels lost. She doesn't need sensativity training. She isn't trying to hurt anyone, she is actually reaching out. Being a step mom, sometimes my tougue has blead from biting it so hard so I don't speek. I'm sure you are an excellent mom and step mom, I'm not judging you in the least. It is sometimes the hardest job in the world. But please don't take anything she says about her mom as a personal attack on you, because great step mom or not, she feels rejected by her biological mom. You may need to be extra patient with her, but in the end it will be worth it.
she needs to talk about her mom, i know how it makes you feel, but your the adult, and i hope you dont let her know how you feel. your daughter knows who takes care of her, who is there for her everyday, who really loves her. its you. and in time, it maybe a few years, she will realize that. but try not to take what she says to heart. good luck
Please help people laugh and call me pregnant?
im 12 and obviously not pregnant. im overweight and i have a droopy pot belly that makes me look pregnant. sometimes my friends say i look pregnant and laugh at me, so i laugh too and pretend to make it not bother me. im 151 lbs and im 5'4, and im actually quite popular. i have alot of friends and boys flirt with me but i feel ugly when they call me pregnant. it really hurts my feelings. when i ask people how many months pregnant do i look, they say between 4 and 6. sometimes i cry and i dont want to stand up to them because they are not bullies they are my friends. i know that are not trying to hurt my feelings and they dont want to but i feel so ugly that sometimes i try to cut myself. i tell my friends that i cut myself but they dont say anything theyre just like why in a playful voice. i cant tell them, and i dont want to. im so ugly. help me do something about this? i really need help.Please help people laugh and call me pregnant?
Okay hun, im 16 and i now weigh 345 pounds... Yeah its alot... You sound just like i was when i was 12. Its so embarrasing. But try to loose weight. If you feel comfortable with yourself then what other people think of you wont matter. They dont put food on the table for you and they sure as hell dont wipe ur *** for you.. So dont worry about what other people think of you. Im sorry to say it, but these people dont seem like true friends to me. TRUE friends wouldnt talk to you or about you like that! They would probally ***** slap the person/people who do. Its just not right! Do not cut yourself. Its not worth it, Ive done it. It solves nothing at all. %26amp; if the wrong person sees it, it can land you in a crazy person place (not saying tht your crazy) but it really doesnt solve a thing. I know its hard but try not to care what other people think of you. Just try loosing weight. You will feel alot better about yourself =))Please help people laugh and call me pregnant?
lose weight... eat healthier and exercise. do some sit-ups... common sense.
u should maybe talk to a doctor and loose some weight if you want
Awwww it's alright. Just lose weight or be yourself. Friends like you for who you are, not looks. OIf they harass you tell them it's hurts. Its easy to lose weight. Im 13 and weigh 110. Not even overweight. I dont get made fun of but you seem like a beautiful wonderful person if boys like you ^w^. Focus on ur good qualities and dont give in!
Why would you ask your friends how many months pregnant you look ? Doesn't that just make them think about it ?
Get new friends.
Stop taking tings so seriously.
Try going for walks every day.
Peace.
talk to your doctor. maybe see a psychiatrist for childhood depression because i hear that's common now.
oh my gosh im soooo sorry. they are so mean and they are not your true friends. you should tell them to stop and it makes you feel bad. or if you want to fix the problem try losing weight. see a doctor or ask your parents about it. or if you have an older sister ask her b/c personally i would be more comfortable with my 15 year old sister.(im 13)
um do not cut yourself, talk to your parents and get help, eat healthy and exercise. It's not hard to lose weight at a young age
You need to tell someone. Seriously, they obviously are NOT your friends. These are true bullies. That's incredibly mean, no matter how overweight you are you should never ever say that to someone. That's so awful. I can't even comprehend this.our not ugly. You are beautiful. Get new friends. Tell an adult. Stand up to them. Don't let them drive you to the edge. Please.
I found out a few weeks ago that additional weight is not always due to additional body fat, a lot of additional weight is simply lying around in the colon. I used a new diet supplement that is taking the population by storm, it flushes out the colon. I don't understand how it operates nevertheless I understand that I melted away seventeen lbs and 4 inches off my midriff! There is a risk free trial at http://zilant.freelightpro.info
They arent your real friends. And you just pretend it doesnt hurt you but dont laugh. Walk away with your head held high and leave them be. Tell them how you really feel and maybe itll work out. Try to loose some pounds. Work out a little andwatch wat u eat. But dont feel bad. And dont cut yourself! That wont help you. People would call u emo! Another problem? Lol, get someone to help you loose wait and to express your feelings. A family member i wood sudjest. Hope you feel better!
Tell your parents whats happening. They'll go to the school and sort everything out, you probably thing you'll get teased and whatnot for going to your parents and/or teachers for help but you wont, and seriously its the best thing that you can do. Tell the kids teasing you to p*ss off and pull their heads in and say that your obviously not pregnant and that their being stupid. You probably havent responded like this before and they probably wont like being talked back to or yelled at by you so they will stop.
Goodluck
You are still a child at 12 and that you are obviously and that something that you can't help.Keep your head up and tell them how would you feel if you was in my shoes?And your friend going around looking at you saying that you are pregnant when they no that you got this problems.Tell them how you feel about them picking at you, don't hold it in let it out.
omg stop cutting yourself!..i would say talk to a counselor..but counselors do tend to make matters worse..but parents are the only ones you can trust,....or teachers(teachers are better)..if people say anything anymore..donnt say nothing just walk away. even if it means to sit by yourself or anything..anyone who makes those stupid comments are not your friends.. now please dont do somehing drastic either like staring yourself to get skinny...get in some sport or naything if you want to loose the wight. ugh i hate younger kids they're so imatture!!..
(watch when they grow up..every single one of them thats calling you prego are going to sufferfrom not being to be able to reproduce..when they're older..!)
%26amp;%26amp; girl no ones ugly..unless your the most rudest person and bad in the world..pretty isnt about looks..its whats on the inside. they're prolly jealouse of something you have and they don't..i used to get teased..because of my green eyes..which now i think they're beauiful!!!!..and im really short like 4'9';...and used to call me oompa lumpa..but i don't care anymore..i know that im a true person..and not messy or mean like everyone else..im in the 9th grade..and there's still so many imature people!!..now i walk the halls..and i think talk your mess..im way pff better without yall..and not to brag but im pretty popular myself..hehehehe!
darling, i understand and i have been there.
don't hurt urself first of all. i did that. it doesnt help. you are going to roll ur eyes and say ';what does she know?'; but i know a lot more that you do at this moment doll.
now first, to deal with ur friends, pull them aside one by one and ask them to stop. let them know it really makes you feel self concious and that it's a mood killer when you're hanging out. they'll probably say theyre just joking (because they are) and if they do say that, let them know that you understand they don't mean it, but it really hits you in a sensitive place and would appreciate it if they could lay off that subject. Im sure they will understand if they are ur friend. try not to make a big deal about it either
second, i can tell what you REALLY want is to be in better shape and appear better. which is totally understandable. so here are some tips i can offer for you
walk. everywhere. i honestly can tell you from experience that it makes you feel and look better. Also, don't get so down on yourself. if you stay active and eat well, you'll feel better.
also, if you want some styling tips, layers are great and so are dark rich colors. especially since it's winter now!
of course, the most important thing is love yourself. youre popular. and your smart. be confident. if you appear confident and don't let things get to you small comments like that won't mean anything
stay beautiful
Okay hun, im 16 and i now weigh 345 pounds... Yeah its alot... You sound just like i was when i was 12. Its so embarrasing. But try to loose weight. If you feel comfortable with yourself then what other people think of you wont matter. They dont put food on the table for you and they sure as hell dont wipe ur *** for you.. So dont worry about what other people think of you. Im sorry to say it, but these people dont seem like true friends to me. TRUE friends wouldnt talk to you or about you like that! They would probally ***** slap the person/people who do. Its just not right! Do not cut yourself. Its not worth it, Ive done it. It solves nothing at all. %26amp; if the wrong person sees it, it can land you in a crazy person place (not saying tht your crazy) but it really doesnt solve a thing. I know its hard but try not to care what other people think of you. Just try loosing weight. You will feel alot better about yourself =))Please help people laugh and call me pregnant?
lose weight... eat healthier and exercise. do some sit-ups... common sense.
u should maybe talk to a doctor and loose some weight if you want
Awwww it's alright. Just lose weight or be yourself. Friends like you for who you are, not looks. OIf they harass you tell them it's hurts. Its easy to lose weight. Im 13 and weigh 110. Not even overweight. I dont get made fun of but you seem like a beautiful wonderful person if boys like you ^w^. Focus on ur good qualities and dont give in!
Why would you ask your friends how many months pregnant you look ? Doesn't that just make them think about it ?
Get new friends.
Stop taking tings so seriously.
Try going for walks every day.
Peace.
talk to your doctor. maybe see a psychiatrist for childhood depression because i hear that's common now.
oh my gosh im soooo sorry. they are so mean and they are not your true friends. you should tell them to stop and it makes you feel bad. or if you want to fix the problem try losing weight. see a doctor or ask your parents about it. or if you have an older sister ask her b/c personally i would be more comfortable with my 15 year old sister.(im 13)
um do not cut yourself, talk to your parents and get help, eat healthy and exercise. It's not hard to lose weight at a young age
You need to tell someone. Seriously, they obviously are NOT your friends. These are true bullies. That's incredibly mean, no matter how overweight you are you should never ever say that to someone. That's so awful. I can't even comprehend this.our not ugly. You are beautiful. Get new friends. Tell an adult. Stand up to them. Don't let them drive you to the edge. Please.
I found out a few weeks ago that additional weight is not always due to additional body fat, a lot of additional weight is simply lying around in the colon. I used a new diet supplement that is taking the population by storm, it flushes out the colon. I don't understand how it operates nevertheless I understand that I melted away seventeen lbs and 4 inches off my midriff! There is a risk free trial at http://zilant.freelightpro.info
They arent your real friends. And you just pretend it doesnt hurt you but dont laugh. Walk away with your head held high and leave them be. Tell them how you really feel and maybe itll work out. Try to loose some pounds. Work out a little andwatch wat u eat. But dont feel bad. And dont cut yourself! That wont help you. People would call u emo! Another problem? Lol, get someone to help you loose wait and to express your feelings. A family member i wood sudjest. Hope you feel better!
Tell your parents whats happening. They'll go to the school and sort everything out, you probably thing you'll get teased and whatnot for going to your parents and/or teachers for help but you wont, and seriously its the best thing that you can do. Tell the kids teasing you to p*ss off and pull their heads in and say that your obviously not pregnant and that their being stupid. You probably havent responded like this before and they probably wont like being talked back to or yelled at by you so they will stop.
Goodluck
You are still a child at 12 and that you are obviously and that something that you can't help.Keep your head up and tell them how would you feel if you was in my shoes?And your friend going around looking at you saying that you are pregnant when they no that you got this problems.Tell them how you feel about them picking at you, don't hold it in let it out.
omg stop cutting yourself!..i would say talk to a counselor..but counselors do tend to make matters worse..but parents are the only ones you can trust,....or teachers(teachers are better)..if people say anything anymore..donnt say nothing just walk away. even if it means to sit by yourself or anything..anyone who makes those stupid comments are not your friends.. now please dont do somehing drastic either like staring yourself to get skinny...get in some sport or naything if you want to loose the wight. ugh i hate younger kids they're so imatture!!..
(watch when they grow up..every single one of them thats calling you prego are going to sufferfrom not being to be able to reproduce..when they're older..!)
%26amp;%26amp; girl no ones ugly..unless your the most rudest person and bad in the world..pretty isnt about looks..its whats on the inside. they're prolly jealouse of something you have and they don't..i used to get teased..because of my green eyes..which now i think they're beauiful!!!!..and im really short like 4'9';...and used to call me oompa lumpa..but i don't care anymore..i know that im a true person..and not messy or mean like everyone else..im in the 9th grade..and there's still so many imature people!!..now i walk the halls..and i think talk your mess..im way pff better without yall..and not to brag but im pretty popular myself..hehehehe!
darling, i understand and i have been there.
don't hurt urself first of all. i did that. it doesnt help. you are going to roll ur eyes and say ';what does she know?'; but i know a lot more that you do at this moment doll.
now first, to deal with ur friends, pull them aside one by one and ask them to stop. let them know it really makes you feel self concious and that it's a mood killer when you're hanging out. they'll probably say theyre just joking (because they are) and if they do say that, let them know that you understand they don't mean it, but it really hits you in a sensitive place and would appreciate it if they could lay off that subject. Im sure they will understand if they are ur friend. try not to make a big deal about it either
second, i can tell what you REALLY want is to be in better shape and appear better. which is totally understandable. so here are some tips i can offer for you
walk. everywhere. i honestly can tell you from experience that it makes you feel and look better. Also, don't get so down on yourself. if you stay active and eat well, you'll feel better.
also, if you want some styling tips, layers are great and so are dark rich colors. especially since it's winter now!
of course, the most important thing is love yourself. youre popular. and your smart. be confident. if you appear confident and don't let things get to you small comments like that won't mean anything
stay beautiful
How can I handle the jealousy of having a prettier friend?
I'm 13 and have realized I'm no better than (even if) average. http://i272.photobucket.com/albums/jj173鈥?/a>
My best friend is extremely pretty. And she has no acne. She's in shape too. She also knows how to act around boys. All the boys flirt with her and say she's hot.
We're really good friends, but it makes me feel like crap to be around her. I always feel ugly and fat when I see her. Help! How can I handle my jealousy?How can I handle the jealousy of having a prettier friend?
i dont think that you're ugly. i think that you are pretty actually and im really not just saying that to make you feel better about yourself and if you think you're fat, i dont want to know what you think skinny/slim is. but anyways, i know how you feel. i have this friend at school that is like a freakin boy magnet. any and every guy i know likes her. since im not attractive to the guys at my school a fear of mine is that some guy will use me to get to her. you just have to be the friend that you would want if you were in her shoes. dont try to put yourself on a competition level with her on who can get the most guys. nor should you compare yourself to anyone because there will ALWAYS be someone who is better at you than something, but that doesnt make you any less of a good person. i think that you should just ignore the green jealousy monster in your spirit and eventually it will go away.How can I handle the jealousy of having a prettier friend?
Honey, I went thru the same thing as a teen. Oh, yes, she may be hot, but I'm certain you have some areas in which to shine. Ignore the rude comments by others. Do well at what you can excel.
ur soo pretty aww dont be hating when u can shine to all u gotta do it glow (meaning thinking ur pretty) and dont lower ur self down and dont worry i do that all the time!
My best friend is extremely pretty. And she has no acne. She's in shape too. She also knows how to act around boys. All the boys flirt with her and say she's hot.
We're really good friends, but it makes me feel like crap to be around her. I always feel ugly and fat when I see her. Help! How can I handle my jealousy?How can I handle the jealousy of having a prettier friend?
i dont think that you're ugly. i think that you are pretty actually and im really not just saying that to make you feel better about yourself and if you think you're fat, i dont want to know what you think skinny/slim is. but anyways, i know how you feel. i have this friend at school that is like a freakin boy magnet. any and every guy i know likes her. since im not attractive to the guys at my school a fear of mine is that some guy will use me to get to her. you just have to be the friend that you would want if you were in her shoes. dont try to put yourself on a competition level with her on who can get the most guys. nor should you compare yourself to anyone because there will ALWAYS be someone who is better at you than something, but that doesnt make you any less of a good person. i think that you should just ignore the green jealousy monster in your spirit and eventually it will go away.How can I handle the jealousy of having a prettier friend?
Honey, I went thru the same thing as a teen. Oh, yes, she may be hot, but I'm certain you have some areas in which to shine. Ignore the rude comments by others. Do well at what you can excel.
ur soo pretty aww dont be hating when u can shine to all u gotta do it glow (meaning thinking ur pretty) and dont lower ur self down and dont worry i do that all the time!
How to flirt and advice on boys?
how do you flirt with guys?? what do u do to get the attention of a boy u like? tell me everything u noe bout flirting with a guy thxz =] im 13How to flirt and advice on boys?
I'm a 14 year old single guy. I really never got together with anyone but i like girls who are themselves. They dont have to try and impress me. All I want in a girl is kindness, and honesty. Sense of humor is always great too. You dont gottal flirt. Just ask him out or what he likes. Ask him about video games. ALL GUYS LOVE VIDEOGAMES! thats my last adviceHow to flirt and advice on boys?
Wow.
Your too young if you dont know how to flirt.
I'm a 14 year old single guy. I really never got together with anyone but i like girls who are themselves. They dont have to try and impress me. All I want in a girl is kindness, and honesty. Sense of humor is always great too. You dont gottal flirt. Just ask him out or what he likes. Ask him about video games. ALL GUYS LOVE VIDEOGAMES! thats my last adviceHow to flirt and advice on boys?
Wow.
Your too young if you dont know how to flirt.
Guys..is there any other reason to stare at a girl besides the appeal of her attractiveness?
Guys are always staring at me when I take the train, walk down the block, go in a store...girls also stare. The boys flirt with me though and tend to say ';hey beautiful';..or something like that.
Please, I am not fishing for compliments or trying to be arrogant in any way. I know the answer seems obvious--that the boys find me attractive--but the girls stare too! And I am not gorgeous or anything. I think I am attractive, but nothing special.
So, why do they stare...can they sense my insecurity? Because I know some girls get sexually harrassed not because they are pretty but because they come off as aloof/insecure.
Guys, are there any other reasons to stare at a girl?
I KNOW how pretentious this sounds, but I cannot write it any other way. Trust me, if I was attempting to fish for compiments I would put my picture up. I am not desperate for attention. I am just really unsure about why they stare at me, honestly.Guys..is there any other reason to stare at a girl besides the appeal of her attractiveness?
I get it too. A lot. Sometimes I even have small panic attacks from the amount of attention and staring I get. I feel you girl. And it's because you are beautiful. That is the only reason. You may seem unusual or something unique. Like a beautiful flower you can't stop looking at it. You may also command attention without realizing it. I live in NYC and it's also your neighborhood, but truly it's every state and every city I have ever gone to, so again it's just because you are beautiful. Beware of the green eyed monster, a lot of haters out there that can't relate. Men stare because they want you, women stare because they want to be you. I learned this when I was 22 and yes it becomes an even bigger problem when you grow even older. It's not a matter of being crazy or conceited. These are facts. You are not imagining them staring. Just try to learn to deal with it and see it as a blessing and curse and keep it moving. Hope this helps chick :)Guys..is there any other reason to stare at a girl besides the appeal of her attractiveness?
You are fishing for compliments because you had to let everyone know that that's what you're not doing. If you're not fishing for compliments, then you are fishing for kind words.
Maybe you are pretty and have a hot bod. Whatever the case, it is nothing to inquire about.
Please, I am not fishing for compliments or trying to be arrogant in any way. I know the answer seems obvious--that the boys find me attractive--but the girls stare too! And I am not gorgeous or anything. I think I am attractive, but nothing special.
So, why do they stare...can they sense my insecurity? Because I know some girls get sexually harrassed not because they are pretty but because they come off as aloof/insecure.
Guys, are there any other reasons to stare at a girl?
I KNOW how pretentious this sounds, but I cannot write it any other way. Trust me, if I was attempting to fish for compiments I would put my picture up. I am not desperate for attention. I am just really unsure about why they stare at me, honestly.Guys..is there any other reason to stare at a girl besides the appeal of her attractiveness?
I get it too. A lot. Sometimes I even have small panic attacks from the amount of attention and staring I get. I feel you girl. And it's because you are beautiful. That is the only reason. You may seem unusual or something unique. Like a beautiful flower you can't stop looking at it. You may also command attention without realizing it. I live in NYC and it's also your neighborhood, but truly it's every state and every city I have ever gone to, so again it's just because you are beautiful. Beware of the green eyed monster, a lot of haters out there that can't relate. Men stare because they want you, women stare because they want to be you. I learned this when I was 22 and yes it becomes an even bigger problem when you grow even older. It's not a matter of being crazy or conceited. These are facts. You are not imagining them staring. Just try to learn to deal with it and see it as a blessing and curse and keep it moving. Hope this helps chick :)Guys..is there any other reason to stare at a girl besides the appeal of her attractiveness?
You are fishing for compliments because you had to let everyone know that that's what you're not doing. If you're not fishing for compliments, then you are fishing for kind words.
Maybe you are pretty and have a hot bod. Whatever the case, it is nothing to inquire about.
Guys..is there any other reason to stare at a girl besides the appeal of her attractiveness?
Guys are always staring at me when I take the train, walk down the block, go in a store...girls also stare. The boys flirt with me though and tend to say ';hey beautiful';..or something like that.
Please, I am not fishing for compliments or trying to be arrogant in any way. I know the answer seems obvious--that the boys find me attractive--but the girls stare too! And I am not gorgeous or anything. I think I am attractive, but nothing special.
So, why do they stare...can they sense my insecurity? Because I know some girls get sexually harrassed not because they are pretty but because they come off as aloof/insecure.
Guys, are there any other reasons to stare at a girl?
I KNOW how pretentious this sounds, but I cannot write it any other way. Trust me, if I was attempting to fish for compiments I would put my picture up. I am not desperate for attention. I am just really unsure about why they stare at me, honestly.Guys..is there any other reason to stare at a girl besides the appeal of her attractiveness?
there aren't many reasons why a guy steers at a girl, it's either: she's attractive,, she looks femiliar, , looks funny, just to see who you are, or there is something hanging off you,, but chances are, if your pretty, they would be checking you out!Guys..is there any other reason to stare at a girl besides the appeal of her attractiveness?
people usually stare when they find someone either attractive or extremely odd but the later usually results and looking away quickly so they don't have eye contact.
nope...when a guy sees a nice piece of *** anywhere hes obviously going to look.
Probably because your attractive
girls r probly jealous of u, and thats pretty much the only reason why guys stare
They probably think you're pretty. Or it might also be the fact that since you are looking at them enough to notice the stares, possibly they think you're looking at them first. Like when someone looks at you, you return a look right? You might just be interpreting it as stares.
I think the girls stare either because they're jealous or they can sense your insecurity. I know personally how easy it can be to spot insecure people, and generally I pay closer attention to them.
Yeah it's probably attractiveness with the guys and maybe the girls are jealous or something. It could also be that you have one of those faces that everybody thinks you look like somebody they've met before.
If your are '; Sexy'; on the outside I would say the guys who stare want to approach you or talk to you , but are intimated by your appearance and energy.
Make sure you keep a neutral face on. I mean don鈥檛 smile like you want every1 you are looking at but don鈥檛 look like you have a shield up.
Could be a combination of attractiveness, what you're wearing and just curiousity about you in general.
Please, I am not fishing for compliments or trying to be arrogant in any way. I know the answer seems obvious--that the boys find me attractive--but the girls stare too! And I am not gorgeous or anything. I think I am attractive, but nothing special.
So, why do they stare...can they sense my insecurity? Because I know some girls get sexually harrassed not because they are pretty but because they come off as aloof/insecure.
Guys, are there any other reasons to stare at a girl?
I KNOW how pretentious this sounds, but I cannot write it any other way. Trust me, if I was attempting to fish for compiments I would put my picture up. I am not desperate for attention. I am just really unsure about why they stare at me, honestly.Guys..is there any other reason to stare at a girl besides the appeal of her attractiveness?
there aren't many reasons why a guy steers at a girl, it's either: she's attractive,, she looks femiliar, , looks funny, just to see who you are, or there is something hanging off you,, but chances are, if your pretty, they would be checking you out!Guys..is there any other reason to stare at a girl besides the appeal of her attractiveness?
people usually stare when they find someone either attractive or extremely odd but the later usually results and looking away quickly so they don't have eye contact.
nope...when a guy sees a nice piece of *** anywhere hes obviously going to look.
Probably because your attractive
girls r probly jealous of u, and thats pretty much the only reason why guys stare
They probably think you're pretty. Or it might also be the fact that since you are looking at them enough to notice the stares, possibly they think you're looking at them first. Like when someone looks at you, you return a look right? You might just be interpreting it as stares.
I think the girls stare either because they're jealous or they can sense your insecurity. I know personally how easy it can be to spot insecure people, and generally I pay closer attention to them.
Yeah it's probably attractiveness with the guys and maybe the girls are jealous or something. It could also be that you have one of those faces that everybody thinks you look like somebody they've met before.
If your are '; Sexy'; on the outside I would say the guys who stare want to approach you or talk to you , but are intimated by your appearance and energy.
Make sure you keep a neutral face on. I mean don鈥檛 smile like you want every1 you are looking at but don鈥檛 look like you have a shield up.
Could be a combination of attractiveness, what you're wearing and just curiousity about you in general.
Guys..is there any other reason to stare at a girl besides the appeal of her attractiveness?
Guys are always staring at me when I take the train, walk down the block, go in a store...girls also stare. The boys flirt with me though and tend to say ';hey beautiful';..or something like that.
Please, I am not fishing for compliments or trying to be arrogant in any way. I know the answer seems obvious--that the boys find me attractive--but the girls stare too! And I am not gorgeous or anything. I think I am attractive, but nothing special.
So, why do they stare...can they sense my insecurity? Because I know some girls get sexually harrassed not because they are pretty but because they come off as aloof/insecure.
Guys, are there any other reasons to stare at a girl?
I KNOW how pretentious this sounds, but I cannot write it any other way. Trust me, if I was attempting to fish for compiments I would put my picture up. I am not desperate for attention. I am just really unsure about why they stare at me, honestly.Guys..is there any other reason to stare at a girl besides the appeal of her attractiveness?
HI Betty.
It is just human nature. Us guys are attracted to the women and sometime we tend to over look or stare. I would just thank who ever compliment you of your appearance and mine their own business. That is my advice.
I too tend to stare at attractive women, but I would normally go up to them and compliment and apologize if I take in too much of the view. They would normally just giggled and thank me.Guys..is there any other reason to stare at a girl besides the appeal of her attractiveness?
It could also be that you're hideously ugly or fat.
humans tend to look alot.
all i can say is....be proud :D
I can answer your question as a girl.
People may stare because
a. you are very pretty
b. you are very ugly
c. you look very different
I am alright looking, nothing special, same as you. But people always stare at me because I look very different. I have a different fashion style than anyone I've seen in the U.S., so heads are always turning.
i like observing other girls unique features for example their clothes, their faces because there are a lot of different pretty unique girls out there and hey i have eyes to look with
it might be on the way how she presents herself.
There is this thing called ';IT';, no one knows what it is, but it sounds like you have ';IT';. Actress Clara Bow was known as the ';it girl';. Probably the same thing as sex appeal.
umm if ur pretty guys will stare at u i cant really think of another reason besides if they met u before
Well to tell you the truth some guy will just say try to talk to any girl that looks that them. it doesn't matter who. But since the girl are staring at you i would say you are pretty then you think. Women only make a big deal about other females because we all want to be the Gorgeous Princess deep down inside.
Do you have toilet paper stuck on your foot? Parsley stuck in your teeth? Forget to brush your hair? Makeup put on by a clown? If none of these apply you must be an attractive young lady!
Well, if it were to be girls, then, it depends, most girls I know stare at a girl bc she has perfect hair or perfect clothes and they just want to have them, or either then that, they think your ugly (not trying to be rude) but if you were to look in a girl, why would you stare?thin hair
Please, I am not fishing for compliments or trying to be arrogant in any way. I know the answer seems obvious--that the boys find me attractive--but the girls stare too! And I am not gorgeous or anything. I think I am attractive, but nothing special.
So, why do they stare...can they sense my insecurity? Because I know some girls get sexually harrassed not because they are pretty but because they come off as aloof/insecure.
Guys, are there any other reasons to stare at a girl?
I KNOW how pretentious this sounds, but I cannot write it any other way. Trust me, if I was attempting to fish for compiments I would put my picture up. I am not desperate for attention. I am just really unsure about why they stare at me, honestly.Guys..is there any other reason to stare at a girl besides the appeal of her attractiveness?
HI Betty.
It is just human nature. Us guys are attracted to the women and sometime we tend to over look or stare. I would just thank who ever compliment you of your appearance and mine their own business. That is my advice.
I too tend to stare at attractive women, but I would normally go up to them and compliment and apologize if I take in too much of the view. They would normally just giggled and thank me.Guys..is there any other reason to stare at a girl besides the appeal of her attractiveness?
It could also be that you're hideously ugly or fat.
humans tend to look alot.
all i can say is....be proud :D
I can answer your question as a girl.
People may stare because
a. you are very pretty
b. you are very ugly
c. you look very different
I am alright looking, nothing special, same as you. But people always stare at me because I look very different. I have a different fashion style than anyone I've seen in the U.S., so heads are always turning.
i like observing other girls unique features for example their clothes, their faces because there are a lot of different pretty unique girls out there and hey i have eyes to look with
it might be on the way how she presents herself.
There is this thing called ';IT';, no one knows what it is, but it sounds like you have ';IT';. Actress Clara Bow was known as the ';it girl';. Probably the same thing as sex appeal.
umm if ur pretty guys will stare at u i cant really think of another reason besides if they met u before
Well to tell you the truth some guy will just say try to talk to any girl that looks that them. it doesn't matter who. But since the girl are staring at you i would say you are pretty then you think. Women only make a big deal about other females because we all want to be the Gorgeous Princess deep down inside.
Do you have toilet paper stuck on your foot? Parsley stuck in your teeth? Forget to brush your hair? Makeup put on by a clown? If none of these apply you must be an attractive young lady!
Well, if it were to be girls, then, it depends, most girls I know stare at a girl bc she has perfect hair or perfect clothes and they just want to have them, or either then that, they think your ugly (not trying to be rude) but if you were to look in a girl, why would you stare?
How do some girls do it?
like go up to a boy and just start a convo. like have sooo much confidence in themselves. im 15 and ima freshmen. and like boys flirt with me and tell me they use to like me or they ask for a kiss or ask me out in a sooo unromantic way. and they're not my type. and the ones that are, they well...acknowledge me but they dont really TRY to talk to me. and i think its b/c im skinny and have a forehead lol. people same im gorgeous and have pretty hair and should be a model. and i get stopped in the mall by agencies but yet im still self conscious! why am i like this.
like i have a low self esteem with certain ppl.How do some girls do it?
You literally just go up and start talking. It isn't hard.How do some girls do it?
theres nothing you can do, you seem like you try to reassssssure yourself. but you just arent confident.
some of us girls are, somr of us arent.
ohwell deal
like i have a low self esteem with certain ppl.How do some girls do it?
You literally just go up and start talking. It isn't hard.How do some girls do it?
theres nothing you can do, you seem like you try to reassssssure yourself. but you just arent confident.
some of us girls are, somr of us arent.
ohwell deal
WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THESE CHARACTERS?!?!?!?
****THIS IS ONLY A GENERAL THING%26lt; I DID NOT ADD BACK STORIES TO THE BIO BUT THEY HAVE BACK STORIES***
Cassandra
Nickname: Cassy, Cass
Age: 15
Gender: Female
Height: 5”1
Weight: 110 pounds
Eye: Static blue
Hair: Medium, choppy brown
Skin: Caucasian (normal white not tan or pale)
Powers:
? Reading minds
? Sharing thoughts through mind
? Changing a persons mind (through mind type of stuff)
? Moving things with her mind
Weakness: Anything that has to do with her parents being alive (like if a bad guy threatened her and said something about her parents being alive or dead she would be stalk still)
Personality: Rebellious, not very careful about looks until Elliot, likes to bad mouth people, not very flirty, gets embarrassed by boys (flirting wise) easily.
Clothes: Jeans, Graphic Tee’s, and comfy easy types of stuff
Favorite color: Silver
Favorite food: Milk
Elliot
Nickname: Elliot… just Elliot (people make funny of him and call him Eli)
Age: 15
Gender: Male
Height: 5”9
Weight: 160 (muscle)
Eye: Green
Hair: His hair is a mix of brown and blonde but mostly brown and shaggy
Skin: Caucasian (tan-ish)
Powers:
? Exploding things with a look or a touch (he can control how big or small the explosion is and when it will happen (like if he looks at it and thinks five minutes it will go off in five minutes))
? Controlling the emotions of women (only girls though and he likes to make them blush a lot)
? He can block other peoples psychic abilities
Weakness: Other people getting hurt that he can not help
Personality: He is a total flirt, and loves girls but his heart belongs to Cassy but she does not know that. He is generally happy but can have a bad temper.
Clothes: Jeans(not tight emo jeans, he hates that) the loose type, and t-shirts.
Favorite Color: Red
Favorite food: Potato chips
Page
Nickname: Page…
Age: 8
Gender: Female
Height: 4” 2
Weight: 50 pounds
Eye: Misty Grey Blue
Hair: Light Blonde, short bob
Skin: Caucasian normal
Powers:
? Breaking down sound and solids by just looking or thinking about it hard enough (it is like a mental com)
? Shape mimicry
? Reforming matter
*Trading souls with her twin
Weakness: When her twin gets hurt
Personality: Slightly diabolical with her twin, but nice and likes to joke around but she is a kid that curses a lot.
Clothes: Skirts, and pink, and matchy stuff.
Favorite Color: Pink
Favorite Food: Chocolate
Nathan
Nickname: Nathe
Age: 8
Gender: Male
Height: 4” 3
Weight: 57
Eye: Misty Gray Blue
Hair: Light blonde
Skin: Caucasian normal
Powers:
? Sleep inducing
? Elemental control
*Switching souls with his twin
Weakness: His twin gettting hurt
Personality: Diabolical, seemingly innocent but not really.
Clothes: Jeans, and blue shirts
Favorite Color: Blue
Favorite Food: Coca-Cola
Ok, so this is basically a story about these kids who are all psychics and are being hunted by government people. Now let me explain. Well so Cass, Page, Nathan were all happy happy family when there parents were killed by goverment people. THey leave there home and use their powers to survive. Now then they end up finding Elliot and they end up deciding they are going to live a normal life. They begin to go to school and elliot and Cass fall in love and he continues to make girls blush and stuff. But then what happens is the goverment people step in in the middle of the school day and they end up being exposed and making a run for it. They are now once again on the run and attempting to survive because the goverment people found a way to completely make them selves immune to psychics. Well I shall not ruin the ending.
But the characters, I know they have a lot more to them but I did not want to completely bore you to death/ SO what are your opinions on them, what should change, anything to add?WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THESE CHARACTERS?!?!?!?
Elliot
Height: 5”9
Weight: 160 (muscle)
HOLY **** he is liiiightt. Is he anorexic? If not you better give him some more faaaat! Unless he has no musceles. Make him like, 200 pounds.WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THESE CHARACTERS?!?!?!?
nothing i would cahnge...sounds good
This actually sounds like a pretty good story.
One of my friends is writing almost exactly the same thing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!… ZOMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But i think it's good... the character design i mean
page as you call her is actually spelt paige
i like them and i espiecailly like elliot cuz i love his name cnt help it tats d way i am.
good luck with the story
little.drumm
xox
dull as dishwater.
Cassandra
Nickname: Cassy, Cass
Age: 15
Gender: Female
Height: 5”1
Weight: 110 pounds
Eye: Static blue
Hair: Medium, choppy brown
Skin: Caucasian (normal white not tan or pale)
Powers:
? Reading minds
? Sharing thoughts through mind
? Changing a persons mind (through mind type of stuff)
? Moving things with her mind
Weakness: Anything that has to do with her parents being alive (like if a bad guy threatened her and said something about her parents being alive or dead she would be stalk still)
Personality: Rebellious, not very careful about looks until Elliot, likes to bad mouth people, not very flirty, gets embarrassed by boys (flirting wise) easily.
Clothes: Jeans, Graphic Tee’s, and comfy easy types of stuff
Favorite color: Silver
Favorite food: Milk
Elliot
Nickname: Elliot… just Elliot (people make funny of him and call him Eli)
Age: 15
Gender: Male
Height: 5”9
Weight: 160 (muscle)
Eye: Green
Hair: His hair is a mix of brown and blonde but mostly brown and shaggy
Skin: Caucasian (tan-ish)
Powers:
? Exploding things with a look or a touch (he can control how big or small the explosion is and when it will happen (like if he looks at it and thinks five minutes it will go off in five minutes))
? Controlling the emotions of women (only girls though and he likes to make them blush a lot)
? He can block other peoples psychic abilities
Weakness: Other people getting hurt that he can not help
Personality: He is a total flirt, and loves girls but his heart belongs to Cassy but she does not know that. He is generally happy but can have a bad temper.
Clothes: Jeans(not tight emo jeans, he hates that) the loose type, and t-shirts.
Favorite Color: Red
Favorite food: Potato chips
Page
Nickname: Page…
Age: 8
Gender: Female
Height: 4” 2
Weight: 50 pounds
Eye: Misty Grey Blue
Hair: Light Blonde, short bob
Skin: Caucasian normal
Powers:
? Breaking down sound and solids by just looking or thinking about it hard enough (it is like a mental com)
? Shape mimicry
? Reforming matter
*Trading souls with her twin
Weakness: When her twin gets hurt
Personality: Slightly diabolical with her twin, but nice and likes to joke around but she is a kid that curses a lot.
Clothes: Skirts, and pink, and matchy stuff.
Favorite Color: Pink
Favorite Food: Chocolate
Nathan
Nickname: Nathe
Age: 8
Gender: Male
Height: 4” 3
Weight: 57
Eye: Misty Gray Blue
Hair: Light blonde
Skin: Caucasian normal
Powers:
? Sleep inducing
? Elemental control
*Switching souls with his twin
Weakness: His twin gettting hurt
Personality: Diabolical, seemingly innocent but not really.
Clothes: Jeans, and blue shirts
Favorite Color: Blue
Favorite Food: Coca-Cola
Ok, so this is basically a story about these kids who are all psychics and are being hunted by government people. Now let me explain. Well so Cass, Page, Nathan were all happy happy family when there parents were killed by goverment people. THey leave there home and use their powers to survive. Now then they end up finding Elliot and they end up deciding they are going to live a normal life. They begin to go to school and elliot and Cass fall in love and he continues to make girls blush and stuff. But then what happens is the goverment people step in in the middle of the school day and they end up being exposed and making a run for it. They are now once again on the run and attempting to survive because the goverment people found a way to completely make them selves immune to psychics. Well I shall not ruin the ending.
But the characters, I know they have a lot more to them but I did not want to completely bore you to death/ SO what are your opinions on them, what should change, anything to add?WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THESE CHARACTERS?!?!?!?
Elliot
Height: 5”9
Weight: 160 (muscle)
HOLY **** he is liiiightt. Is he anorexic? If not you better give him some more faaaat! Unless he has no musceles. Make him like, 200 pounds.WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THESE CHARACTERS?!?!?!?
nothing i would cahnge...sounds good
This actually sounds like a pretty good story.
One of my friends is writing almost exactly the same thing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!… ZOMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But i think it's good... the character design i mean
page as you call her is actually spelt paige
i like them and i espiecailly like elliot cuz i love his name cnt help it tats d way i am.
good luck with the story
little.drumm
xox
dull as dishwater.
What do you think about the bios I created for my characters?
****THIS IS ONLY A GENERAL THING%26lt; I DID NOT ADD BACK STORIES TO THE BIO BUT THEY HAVE BACK STORIES***
Cassandra
Nickname: Cassy, Cass
Age: 15
Gender: Female
Height: 5”1
Weight: 110 pounds
Eye: Static blue
Hair: Medium, choppy brown
Skin: Caucasian (normal white not tan or pale)
Powers:
? Reading minds
? Sharing thoughts through mind
? Changing a persons mind (through mind type of stuff)
? Moving things with her mind
Personality: Rebellious, not very careful about looks until Elliot, likes to bad mouth people, not very flirty, gets embarrassed by boys (flirting wise) easily.
Clothes: Jeans, Graphic Tee’s, and comfy easy types of stuff
Favorite color: Silver
Favorite food: Milk
Elliot
Nickname: Elliot… just Elliot (people make funny of him and call him Eli)
Age: 15
Gender: Male
Height: 5”9
Weight: 160 (muscle)
Eye: Green
Hair: His hair is a mix of brown and blonde but mostly brown and shaggy
Skin: Caucasian (tan-ish)
Powers:
? Exploding things with a look or a touch (he can control how big or small the explosion is and when it will happen (like if he looks at it and thinks five minutes it will go off in five minutes))
? Controlling the emotions of women (only girls though and he likes to make them blush a lot)
? He can block other peoples psychic abilities
Personality: He is a total flirt, and loves girls but his heart belongs to Cassy but she does not know that. He is generally happy but can have a bad temper.
Clothes: Jeans(not tight emo jeans, he hates that) the loose type, and t-shirts.
Favorite Color: Red
Favorite food: Potato chips
Page
Nickname: Page…
Age: 8
Gender: Female
Height: 4” 2
Weight: 50 pounds
Eye: Misty Grey Blue
Hair: Light Blonde, short bob
Skin: Caucasian normal
Powers:
? Breaking down sound and solids by just looking or thinking about it hard enough (it is like a mental com)
? Shape mimicry
? Reforming matter
Personality: Slightly diabolical with her twin, but nice and likes to joke around but she is a kid that curses a lot.
Clothes: Skirts, and pink, and matchy stuff.
Favorite Color: Pink
Favorite Food: Chocolate
Nathan
Nickname: Nathe
Age: 8
Gender: Male
Height: 4” 3
Weight: 57
Eye: Misty Gray Blue
Hair: Light blonde
Skin: Caucasian normal
Powers:
? Sleep inducing
? Elemental control
Personality: Diabolical, seemingly innocent but not really.
Clothes: Jeans, and blue shirts
Favorite Color: Blue
Favorite Food: Coca-Cola
Ok, so this is basically a story about these kids who are all psychics and are being hunted by government people. Now let me explain. Well so Cass, Page, Nathan were all happy happy family when there parents were killed by goverment people. THey leave there home and use their powers to survive. Now then they end up finding Elliot and they end up deciding they are going to live a normal life. They begin to go to school and elliot and Cass fall in love and he continues to make girls blush and stuff. But then what happens is the goverment people step in in the middle of the school day and they end up being exposed and making a run for it. They are now once again on the run and attempting to survive because the goverment people found a way to completely make them selves immune to psychics. Well I shall not ruin the ending.
But the characters, I know they have a lot more to them but I did not want to completely bore you to death/ SO what are your opinions on them, what should change, anything to add?What do you think about the bios I created for my characters?
There's several things wrong with it ... one: Coca cola and milk are not food; they're drinks. Moving things with their minds is called Telekinesis and they have too many powers each ';/ I - personally - don't like characters who have more than one ability as it sometimes means they cannot have a downfall ';/ You should also include one of those. What can be done to hurt or 'destroy' the character; even the most powerful character's have to have a downfall somewhere. The government need a downfall too. The human race may be becoming smarter and finding ways to do stuff we couldn't years ago there's no way that they'd be able to stop everything from affecting them ... so as I said, give them a downfall.What do you think about the bios I created for my characters?
Very nice i would love to read your story. Why don't you publish it?
Cassandra
Nickname: Cassy, Cass
Age: 15
Gender: Female
Height: 5”1
Weight: 110 pounds
Eye: Static blue
Hair: Medium, choppy brown
Skin: Caucasian (normal white not tan or pale)
Powers:
? Reading minds
? Sharing thoughts through mind
? Changing a persons mind (through mind type of stuff)
? Moving things with her mind
Personality: Rebellious, not very careful about looks until Elliot, likes to bad mouth people, not very flirty, gets embarrassed by boys (flirting wise) easily.
Clothes: Jeans, Graphic Tee’s, and comfy easy types of stuff
Favorite color: Silver
Favorite food: Milk
Elliot
Nickname: Elliot… just Elliot (people make funny of him and call him Eli)
Age: 15
Gender: Male
Height: 5”9
Weight: 160 (muscle)
Eye: Green
Hair: His hair is a mix of brown and blonde but mostly brown and shaggy
Skin: Caucasian (tan-ish)
Powers:
? Exploding things with a look or a touch (he can control how big or small the explosion is and when it will happen (like if he looks at it and thinks five minutes it will go off in five minutes))
? Controlling the emotions of women (only girls though and he likes to make them blush a lot)
? He can block other peoples psychic abilities
Personality: He is a total flirt, and loves girls but his heart belongs to Cassy but she does not know that. He is generally happy but can have a bad temper.
Clothes: Jeans(not tight emo jeans, he hates that) the loose type, and t-shirts.
Favorite Color: Red
Favorite food: Potato chips
Page
Nickname: Page…
Age: 8
Gender: Female
Height: 4” 2
Weight: 50 pounds
Eye: Misty Grey Blue
Hair: Light Blonde, short bob
Skin: Caucasian normal
Powers:
? Breaking down sound and solids by just looking or thinking about it hard enough (it is like a mental com)
? Shape mimicry
? Reforming matter
Personality: Slightly diabolical with her twin, but nice and likes to joke around but she is a kid that curses a lot.
Clothes: Skirts, and pink, and matchy stuff.
Favorite Color: Pink
Favorite Food: Chocolate
Nathan
Nickname: Nathe
Age: 8
Gender: Male
Height: 4” 3
Weight: 57
Eye: Misty Gray Blue
Hair: Light blonde
Skin: Caucasian normal
Powers:
? Sleep inducing
? Elemental control
Personality: Diabolical, seemingly innocent but not really.
Clothes: Jeans, and blue shirts
Favorite Color: Blue
Favorite Food: Coca-Cola
Ok, so this is basically a story about these kids who are all psychics and are being hunted by government people. Now let me explain. Well so Cass, Page, Nathan were all happy happy family when there parents were killed by goverment people. THey leave there home and use their powers to survive. Now then they end up finding Elliot and they end up deciding they are going to live a normal life. They begin to go to school and elliot and Cass fall in love and he continues to make girls blush and stuff. But then what happens is the goverment people step in in the middle of the school day and they end up being exposed and making a run for it. They are now once again on the run and attempting to survive because the goverment people found a way to completely make them selves immune to psychics. Well I shall not ruin the ending.
But the characters, I know they have a lot more to them but I did not want to completely bore you to death/ SO what are your opinions on them, what should change, anything to add?What do you think about the bios I created for my characters?
There's several things wrong with it ... one: Coca cola and milk are not food; they're drinks. Moving things with their minds is called Telekinesis and they have too many powers each ';/ I - personally - don't like characters who have more than one ability as it sometimes means they cannot have a downfall ';/ You should also include one of those. What can be done to hurt or 'destroy' the character; even the most powerful character's have to have a downfall somewhere. The government need a downfall too. The human race may be becoming smarter and finding ways to do stuff we couldn't years ago there's no way that they'd be able to stop everything from affecting them ... so as I said, give them a downfall.What do you think about the bios I created for my characters?
Very nice i would love to read your story. Why don't you publish it?
Friend help?
ok one of my best guy friends is dating this girl and he has been going out with her for only about 2 weeks. Last weekend she was supposed to go out with him and see a movie but ';had to go to her cuzins b-day party'; but she told me she had a lot of friends at her house that night....so how does that make sense? then tonight i saw on a bulliten on myspace from her friend saying the 3 of them were going to the movies so i figure she is gunna invite her BF. Well again she blows him off because i saw her at the ice skating rink. But the worst part is she was letting boys flirt with her and flirting BACK!!! i dont know what to tell my friend cuz i dont want to hurt him. Also i dont want him to think im trying to break them up because he knows i dont like her and he might think i still like him because i went out with him before he went out with her but thats not true. I just hate to see that sl*t treat him like that because he is my best friend. what do i do? what should i say to him? HELP!Friend help?
clearly you are frustrated because you care a lot about your friend and it hurts to see him being treated that way. the best thing you could do, in my opinion, is try to set up a heart-to-heart talk with him. then, when you feel the timing is right, go ahead and tell him what you found out. i know it will be very hard on your part cause you worry a lot because he might think you were just trying to break them apart. sometimes the truth is the hardest to believe that is why it is almost always easier to lie... and even better not to tell... right?
now, here's the big question... if you answer this. it would help you realize what you should do...
which among these option would you rather bear?
(a) see your friend devastated and broken hearted when he was the one who found out the girl's real color because you chose to keep what you found out away from him to avoid being mistaken for a girl attracted to him trying to keep them apart...
or...
(b) endure whatever consequence your telling him the truth about the girl of his dreams may lead to (either good or bad), and help make him realize the truth... he may get mad at you at some point but,,, later on he would realize that you played the part of a good friend...
in the end it will be up to you... whatever your decision will be... stick to it and take responsibility for the consequences...
hope i helped somehow... and good luck...Friend help?
no problem... i'm happy to hear that you are doing fine now... i'm really glad i have helped...
u should tell him bcuz the further u hold bck the more hurt he will get when he finds out bout dis and u knew bout it and didnt tell him!!! dats wat i think...hope dat was helpful!!! %26lt;3
find you something else to concern yourself with. Don't be the busy body you will end up losing friends.
Been there and surely done that. With matters like this it can be hard. You want to help your friend without upsetting him. However most of the time they will not listen to anyone. They must realize it themselves. The next time she blows him off, if you see her, simply tell him the next day that ';man i went up to (a place) last night. I ran into (her name) '; or tell him that you went to the Ice Rink and saw her there. Don't tell him that she was flirting just tell him that she was there talking to a bunch of guys. That way you're being informative without seeming like you want them to break up.
you really have to tell and if you can't
well ask a friend to tell him
I wouldn't tell him right away. I would kind oh hint out that your girlfriends a tramp without going over the top. But yeah eventually your going to have to tell him. Its just what friends do they tell you stuff even when you don't want to hear it. So be a good friend tell him ad get it over with because eventually he is going to find out. And I would be pissed if my friends knew my bf is a ho and didn't tell me
clearly you are frustrated because you care a lot about your friend and it hurts to see him being treated that way. the best thing you could do, in my opinion, is try to set up a heart-to-heart talk with him. then, when you feel the timing is right, go ahead and tell him what you found out. i know it will be very hard on your part cause you worry a lot because he might think you were just trying to break them apart. sometimes the truth is the hardest to believe that is why it is almost always easier to lie... and even better not to tell... right?
now, here's the big question... if you answer this. it would help you realize what you should do...
which among these option would you rather bear?
(a) see your friend devastated and broken hearted when he was the one who found out the girl's real color because you chose to keep what you found out away from him to avoid being mistaken for a girl attracted to him trying to keep them apart...
or...
(b) endure whatever consequence your telling him the truth about the girl of his dreams may lead to (either good or bad), and help make him realize the truth... he may get mad at you at some point but,,, later on he would realize that you played the part of a good friend...
in the end it will be up to you... whatever your decision will be... stick to it and take responsibility for the consequences...
hope i helped somehow... and good luck...Friend help?
no problem... i'm happy to hear that you are doing fine now... i'm really glad i have helped...
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u should tell him bcuz the further u hold bck the more hurt he will get when he finds out bout dis and u knew bout it and didnt tell him!!! dats wat i think...hope dat was helpful!!! %26lt;3
find you something else to concern yourself with. Don't be the busy body you will end up losing friends.
Been there and surely done that. With matters like this it can be hard. You want to help your friend without upsetting him. However most of the time they will not listen to anyone. They must realize it themselves. The next time she blows him off, if you see her, simply tell him the next day that ';man i went up to (a place) last night. I ran into (her name) '; or tell him that you went to the Ice Rink and saw her there. Don't tell him that she was flirting just tell him that she was there talking to a bunch of guys. That way you're being informative without seeming like you want them to break up.
you really have to tell and if you can't
well ask a friend to tell him
I wouldn't tell him right away. I would kind oh hint out that your girlfriends a tramp without going over the top. But yeah eventually your going to have to tell him. Its just what friends do they tell you stuff even when you don't want to hear it. So be a good friend tell him ad get it over with because eventually he is going to find out. And I would be pissed if my friends knew my bf is a ho and didn't tell me
Im worried that what i did will put me in jail. How illegal is this?
um, ok, i've done something a little bit illegal. there's this girl i like, i mean really like. yeah, basically i love her. we go to the same college but i can never speak to her, i kind of stalk her instead.
i could never ever get her. i'm fat and ugly with a crap personality, and im not that bright either. she is absolutely beautiful (reminds me a bit of ariel form the little mermaid, when shes in human form of course), intelligent, funny, shes perfect. i see pretty boys flirt with her and her flirt back and it fills me with rage.
i'll never get her.
so instead, what i've done is something illegal. i followed her home secretly a couple of times to find out where she lived and gathered who she lives with etc. i heard her mention a few weeks ago that for her mums birthday her family were going for a meal.
i've gone on with myself for quite enough time now but basically i broke into her house and installed a secret camera in her room. and while i was in there i sniffed her underwear and stole a pair, and masturbated on her bed. the camera is linked to my computer and now i can watch her. this is as close as i can get.
she doesn't have a chance of finding out, but if she does how much trouble will i be in.Im worried that what i did will put me in jail. How illegal is this?
A LOT of trouble.
Breaking and entering, burglary, theft and illegal surveillance?
Depending on your state, %26amp; prior criminal record... I would bet you would be looking at 1 to 7 years worth of prison if discovered.
My advice is you need to back off and find something else to focus your attentions on. No good can come of this.Im worried that what i did will put me in jail. How illegal is this?
Fantasyland...It'll get you every time.
This sounds like BS to me, but you are one sick f*ck
ok scumbag here..3 dui's 1 robbery 2 conceald weapon 1 open container anyway been there done that..not on ur sex crime level but crime... so i like ur idea i think its great id do it myself but i know they dont play that no more thats on the dirty dirty list these days a taboo...they will throw the book at u ur lookin at at least 5..least 5 u get an angry judge u could do 10 but no more still thats a dirty crime i like drugs and stealing sex crimes r a lil scary u have some deep dark issues u need to go get ur cam back when nobody is lookin and fast
troll
You are in a lot of trouble. My advice is to get that crap out even though that is a felony to go back into her house without consent. Then you need a lawyer because if anyone finds out you will go to jail. And don't talk about illegal activities on the internet, it just isn't smart.
If you're caught, you're looking at:
a) Criminal case - burglary (entry w/intent to commit a crime), stalking, criminal mischief. There may be specific criminal provisions in your state relating to voyeurism, and at least burglary (if not the other offenses) arises to a felony. Your crimes may also fit within a spectrum of offenses labeled as sex crimes. In many jurisdictions, sex crime convicts are subject to mandatory registration laws (The ';Megan Law';) and may also face local discrimination that remains legally iron clad.
b) civil - you will be sued for intentional infliction of emotional distress should your actions (and your obsession w/';Ariel';) become known. Theoretically, you can only be sued for damages - a monetary award amounting to what you've cost the victim. In practice, ';pain and suffering'; can widely inflate that figure. Also, in cases of egregiously bad conduct, you can also be sued for punitive damages - breaking into somebody's home and installing a camera would easily satisfy that standard of egrgious conduct.
c) social - you will become a pariah, stigmatized as a pervert. Nobody will give you a job, rent you a house. This will be a black mark against you forever, your entire life will become as foam on the sea';, just like the original Little Mermaid - not the Disney versuon.
';she doesn't have a chance of finding out';
No offense, but I find your lack of doubt most difficult to believe. People do get caught for this sort of thing - you have no faith in your people skills or your appearance, yet place a lot of faith in your technical acumen. On the contrary - you stand a good chance of being caught. Among other things, that camera is a clue to the crime, and you've left DNA evidence behind.
Best advice - you need to see a psychiatrist with whom to explore your many manifest issues. I know that suggestion has become tainted as an insult, but I sincerely suggest it for your own good. Get help now, this behavior can only hurt everybody, including ';Ariel';.
Ask yourself what your obsession is with her. Do you like her for yourself or just as a representation of the girl you'd have if you were the person you'd like to be. Many people acquire trophy friends only as a reflection of their high self-image. You are on the other end of the spectrum - acquiring targets who reflect what you are not: handsome, athletic, likable, personable. Ask yourself how you'd feel if those camera shots of her al-fresco were widely disseminated, and she was devastated, publicly humiliated. Would you feel sad for her? Would you care at all? Would you feel some kind of satisfaction that you knocked her down a peg or proved that she wasn't as inacessable as you;d been led to believe? Unless you can sincerely choose the 1st answer, you're in trouble - the other 2 belong only to creeps, while the 1st shows that you're not out of luck. If you really like this girl, or at least if you want to avoid a future as ';Steve the Skeeve';, you need to choose the 1st answer. If you really care about this girl, you''ll do the right thing and avoid hurting her.
a confession like that ! yeah,spells trouble for u,go to jail, u %26amp; she will be safer
I'm not sure.
Send me a link to your camera and I'll let you know in 2-3 months.
very illegal. you are trespassing, breaking and entering, burglary (since you stole a pair of her underwear), you are illegally putting surveillance equipment in her house. you are also stalking her. you could get a restraining order against you and some decent amount of jail time.
i could never ever get her. i'm fat and ugly with a crap personality, and im not that bright either. she is absolutely beautiful (reminds me a bit of ariel form the little mermaid, when shes in human form of course), intelligent, funny, shes perfect. i see pretty boys flirt with her and her flirt back and it fills me with rage.
i'll never get her.
so instead, what i've done is something illegal. i followed her home secretly a couple of times to find out where she lived and gathered who she lives with etc. i heard her mention a few weeks ago that for her mums birthday her family were going for a meal.
i've gone on with myself for quite enough time now but basically i broke into her house and installed a secret camera in her room. and while i was in there i sniffed her underwear and stole a pair, and masturbated on her bed. the camera is linked to my computer and now i can watch her. this is as close as i can get.
she doesn't have a chance of finding out, but if she does how much trouble will i be in.Im worried that what i did will put me in jail. How illegal is this?
A LOT of trouble.
Breaking and entering, burglary, theft and illegal surveillance?
Depending on your state, %26amp; prior criminal record... I would bet you would be looking at 1 to 7 years worth of prison if discovered.
My advice is you need to back off and find something else to focus your attentions on. No good can come of this.Im worried that what i did will put me in jail. How illegal is this?
Fantasyland...It'll get you every time.
This sounds like BS to me, but you are one sick f*ck
ok scumbag here..3 dui's 1 robbery 2 conceald weapon 1 open container anyway been there done that..not on ur sex crime level but crime... so i like ur idea i think its great id do it myself but i know they dont play that no more thats on the dirty dirty list these days a taboo...they will throw the book at u ur lookin at at least 5..least 5 u get an angry judge u could do 10 but no more still thats a dirty crime i like drugs and stealing sex crimes r a lil scary u have some deep dark issues u need to go get ur cam back when nobody is lookin and fast
troll
You are in a lot of trouble. My advice is to get that crap out even though that is a felony to go back into her house without consent. Then you need a lawyer because if anyone finds out you will go to jail. And don't talk about illegal activities on the internet, it just isn't smart.
If you're caught, you're looking at:
a) Criminal case - burglary (entry w/intent to commit a crime), stalking, criminal mischief. There may be specific criminal provisions in your state relating to voyeurism, and at least burglary (if not the other offenses) arises to a felony. Your crimes may also fit within a spectrum of offenses labeled as sex crimes. In many jurisdictions, sex crime convicts are subject to mandatory registration laws (The ';Megan Law';) and may also face local discrimination that remains legally iron clad.
b) civil - you will be sued for intentional infliction of emotional distress should your actions (and your obsession w/';Ariel';) become known. Theoretically, you can only be sued for damages - a monetary award amounting to what you've cost the victim. In practice, ';pain and suffering'; can widely inflate that figure. Also, in cases of egregiously bad conduct, you can also be sued for punitive damages - breaking into somebody's home and installing a camera would easily satisfy that standard of egrgious conduct.
c) social - you will become a pariah, stigmatized as a pervert. Nobody will give you a job, rent you a house. This will be a black mark against you forever, your entire life will become as foam on the sea';, just like the original Little Mermaid - not the Disney versuon.
';she doesn't have a chance of finding out';
No offense, but I find your lack of doubt most difficult to believe. People do get caught for this sort of thing - you have no faith in your people skills or your appearance, yet place a lot of faith in your technical acumen. On the contrary - you stand a good chance of being caught. Among other things, that camera is a clue to the crime, and you've left DNA evidence behind.
Best advice - you need to see a psychiatrist with whom to explore your many manifest issues. I know that suggestion has become tainted as an insult, but I sincerely suggest it for your own good. Get help now, this behavior can only hurt everybody, including ';Ariel';.
Ask yourself what your obsession is with her. Do you like her for yourself or just as a representation of the girl you'd have if you were the person you'd like to be. Many people acquire trophy friends only as a reflection of their high self-image. You are on the other end of the spectrum - acquiring targets who reflect what you are not: handsome, athletic, likable, personable. Ask yourself how you'd feel if those camera shots of her al-fresco were widely disseminated, and she was devastated, publicly humiliated. Would you feel sad for her? Would you care at all? Would you feel some kind of satisfaction that you knocked her down a peg or proved that she wasn't as inacessable as you;d been led to believe? Unless you can sincerely choose the 1st answer, you're in trouble - the other 2 belong only to creeps, while the 1st shows that you're not out of luck. If you really like this girl, or at least if you want to avoid a future as ';Steve the Skeeve';, you need to choose the 1st answer. If you really care about this girl, you''ll do the right thing and avoid hurting her.
a confession like that ! yeah,spells trouble for u,go to jail, u %26amp; she will be safer
I'm not sure.
Send me a link to your camera and I'll let you know in 2-3 months.
very illegal. you are trespassing, breaking and entering, burglary (since you stole a pair of her underwear), you are illegally putting surveillance equipment in her house. you are also stalking her. you could get a restraining order against you and some decent amount of jail time.
GUY TROUBLES PLEASE HELP!!?
hey, so there's this guy who im friends with. and I like him. ALOT. anw, How do guys flirt? cause I pinched him (long story wasnt hard anw) on the leg and the muscle felt flexed. and once we were talking about tanned/pale skin and I looked at his arm to see if HE is pale of not and I think I saw im flexing.. there's just alot of little things and i want to know if Im just weird and think there liking signs or if hhe actually does have ffeeelings for me. anw, thantks for reading this long thing, the main questions, HOW DO BOYS FLIRT WITH GIRLS THAT ARE THEIR FREINDS? GUY TROUBLES PLEASE HELP!!?
They usually bug them and stuff
They usually bug them and stuff
I want a boyfriend.....?
im an 8th grader whose mildly popular in a middle school filled with a lot of cool people but ionly hang out with a few but i mostly hang out with the preps. I constantly have boys flirting with me but mostly staring at me. i kno im not very attractive becuase i liked 3 guys before and the found out and they wer like eww. I just wanna know some tips on how to get guys to flirt with me more than just any other girl and want me to be their girlfriend. im kind of quiet but im getting out of it and wanna know more tips. i want a boyfriendI want a boyfriend.....?
Come everyday to school nice, hair done, teeth brushed, and nice clothes. Start talking to guys, be their friend, but don't be that annoying.I want a boyfriend.....?
youre only in eighth grade ...youve got many many more years for a boy friend...just have fun and live your life for now...worry about boys later...trust me...i made the mistake in being with boys too early...just stick with friends for now..okay?
itll be worth it in the long run
well then if you like somebody just talk t o him
and see what happends
i want a boy too would yu help me!!
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Come everyday to school nice, hair done, teeth brushed, and nice clothes. Start talking to guys, be their friend, but don't be that annoying.I want a boyfriend.....?
youre only in eighth grade ...youve got many many more years for a boy friend...just have fun and live your life for now...worry about boys later...trust me...i made the mistake in being with boys too early...just stick with friends for now..okay?
itll be worth it in the long run
well then if you like somebody just talk t o him
and see what happends
i want a boy too would yu help me!!
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DO you like the characters that I cam up with.?
Cassandra
Nickname: Cassy, Cass
Age: 15
Gender: Female
Height: 5”1
Weight: 110 pounds
Eye: Static blue
Hair: Medium, choppy brown
Skin: Caucasian (normal white not tan or pale)
Powers:
? Reading minds
? Sharing thoughts through mind
? Changing a persons mind (through mind type of stuff)
? Moving things with her mind
Personality: Rebellious, not very careful about looks until Elliot, likes to bad mouth people, not very flirty, gets embarrassed by boys (flirting wise) easily.
Clothes: Jeans, Graphic Tee’s, and comfy easy types of stuff
Favorite color: Silver
Favorite food: Milk
Elliot
Nickname: Elliot… just Elliot (people make funny of him and call him Eli)
Age: 15
Gender: Male
Height: 5”9
Weight: 160 (muscle)
Eye: Green
Hair: His hair is a mix of brown and blonde but mostly brown and shaggy
Skin: Caucasian (tan-ish)
Powers:
? Exploding things with a look or a touch (he can control how big or small the explosion is and when it will happen (like if he looks at it and thinks five minutes it will go off in five minutes))
? Controlling the emotions of women (only girls though and he likes to make them blush a lot)
? He can block other peoples psychic abilities
Personality: He is a total flirt, and loves girls but his heart belongs to Cassy but she does not know that. He is generally happy but can have a bad temper.
Clothes: Jeans(not tight emo jeans, he hates that) the loose type, and t-shirts.
Favorite Color: Red
Favorite food: Potato chips
Page
Nickname: Page…
Age: 8
Gender: Female
Height: 4” 2
Weight: 50 pounds
Eye: Misty Grey Blue
Hair: Light Blonde, short bob
Skin: Caucasian normal
Powers:
? Breaking down sound and solids by just looking or thinking about it hard enough (it is like a mental com)
? Shape mimicry
? Reforming matter
Personality: Slightly diabolical with her twin, but nice and likes to joke around but she is a kid that curses a lot.
Clothes: Skirts, and pink, and matchy stuff.
Favorite Color: Pink
Favorite Food: Chocolate
Nathan
Nickname: Nathe
Age: 8
Gender: Male
Height: 4” 3
Weight: 57
Eye: Misty Gray Blue
Hair: Light blonde
Skin: Caucasian normal
Powers:
? Sleep inducing
? Elemental control
Personality: Diabolical, seemingly innocent but not really.
Clothes: Jeans, and blue shirts
Favorite Color: Blue
Favorite Food: Coca-Cola
Ok, so this is basically a story about these kids who are all psychics and are being hunted by government people. Now let me explain. Well so Cass, Page, Nathan were all happy happy family when there parents were killed by goverment people. THey leave there home and use their powers to survive. Now then they end up finding Elliot and they end up deciding they are going to live a normal life. They begin to go to school and elliot and Cass fall in love and he continues to make girls blush and stuff. But then what happens is the goverment people step in in the middle of the school day and they end up being exposed and making a run for it. They are now once again on the run and attempting to survive because the goverment people found a way to completely make them selves immune to psychics. Well I shall not ruin the ending.
But the characters, I know they have a lot more to them but I did not want to completely bore you to death/ SO what are your opinions on them, what should change, anything to add?DO you like the characters that I cam up with.?
Sounds a bit like Maximum Ride, but meh, do whatever. And I think 50 pounds is a bit light for an 8 year old. I'm a foot taller than her and double her weight, and I'm the healthy weight. So, don't know whats up with that.DO you like the characters that I cam up with.?
They sound like every other character invented by a teenage girl. Try to give them a much more in-depth backstory, and make their interests and personalities less generic/cliche.
Sounds like Cassandra has RPS...Rebellious princess syndrome.
ew, nope. dont like them.
I think it sounds really interesting. I'd probably read your book! I hope you get it published(:
I can just about match someone with every single one of your characters. Actually, I can sort of relate to Cassandra(:
And I have a twin sister, so I'm all for the twin tikes(: Cute!
Great job!
Nickname: Cassy, Cass
Age: 15
Gender: Female
Height: 5”1
Weight: 110 pounds
Eye: Static blue
Hair: Medium, choppy brown
Skin: Caucasian (normal white not tan or pale)
Powers:
? Reading minds
? Sharing thoughts through mind
? Changing a persons mind (through mind type of stuff)
? Moving things with her mind
Personality: Rebellious, not very careful about looks until Elliot, likes to bad mouth people, not very flirty, gets embarrassed by boys (flirting wise) easily.
Clothes: Jeans, Graphic Tee’s, and comfy easy types of stuff
Favorite color: Silver
Favorite food: Milk
Elliot
Nickname: Elliot… just Elliot (people make funny of him and call him Eli)
Age: 15
Gender: Male
Height: 5”9
Weight: 160 (muscle)
Eye: Green
Hair: His hair is a mix of brown and blonde but mostly brown and shaggy
Skin: Caucasian (tan-ish)
Powers:
? Exploding things with a look or a touch (he can control how big or small the explosion is and when it will happen (like if he looks at it and thinks five minutes it will go off in five minutes))
? Controlling the emotions of women (only girls though and he likes to make them blush a lot)
? He can block other peoples psychic abilities
Personality: He is a total flirt, and loves girls but his heart belongs to Cassy but she does not know that. He is generally happy but can have a bad temper.
Clothes: Jeans(not tight emo jeans, he hates that) the loose type, and t-shirts.
Favorite Color: Red
Favorite food: Potato chips
Page
Nickname: Page…
Age: 8
Gender: Female
Height: 4” 2
Weight: 50 pounds
Eye: Misty Grey Blue
Hair: Light Blonde, short bob
Skin: Caucasian normal
Powers:
? Breaking down sound and solids by just looking or thinking about it hard enough (it is like a mental com)
? Shape mimicry
? Reforming matter
Personality: Slightly diabolical with her twin, but nice and likes to joke around but she is a kid that curses a lot.
Clothes: Skirts, and pink, and matchy stuff.
Favorite Color: Pink
Favorite Food: Chocolate
Nathan
Nickname: Nathe
Age: 8
Gender: Male
Height: 4” 3
Weight: 57
Eye: Misty Gray Blue
Hair: Light blonde
Skin: Caucasian normal
Powers:
? Sleep inducing
? Elemental control
Personality: Diabolical, seemingly innocent but not really.
Clothes: Jeans, and blue shirts
Favorite Color: Blue
Favorite Food: Coca-Cola
Ok, so this is basically a story about these kids who are all psychics and are being hunted by government people. Now let me explain. Well so Cass, Page, Nathan were all happy happy family when there parents were killed by goverment people. THey leave there home and use their powers to survive. Now then they end up finding Elliot and they end up deciding they are going to live a normal life. They begin to go to school and elliot and Cass fall in love and he continues to make girls blush and stuff. But then what happens is the goverment people step in in the middle of the school day and they end up being exposed and making a run for it. They are now once again on the run and attempting to survive because the goverment people found a way to completely make them selves immune to psychics. Well I shall not ruin the ending.
But the characters, I know they have a lot more to them but I did not want to completely bore you to death/ SO what are your opinions on them, what should change, anything to add?DO you like the characters that I cam up with.?
Sounds a bit like Maximum Ride, but meh, do whatever. And I think 50 pounds is a bit light for an 8 year old. I'm a foot taller than her and double her weight, and I'm the healthy weight. So, don't know whats up with that.DO you like the characters that I cam up with.?
They sound like every other character invented by a teenage girl. Try to give them a much more in-depth backstory, and make their interests and personalities less generic/cliche.
Sounds like Cassandra has RPS...Rebellious princess syndrome.
ew, nope. dont like them.
I think it sounds really interesting. I'd probably read your book! I hope you get it published(:
I can just about match someone with every single one of your characters. Actually, I can sort of relate to Cassandra(:
And I have a twin sister, so I'm all for the twin tikes(: Cute!
Great job!
So, how am i going to get her back or should i move on?
Yea i broke up with my girlfriend cause i felt dat i had enough, we've been going out for 2 years and 2 months.She is always or other boys flirt with her.And at my brother LaDrewe's b- day a boy kissed her.Yea i was mad but i loved her so i didn't bother.But she gave me attitude and etc. it seemed that she wanted to move on.Our school has lots of people who look nice both genders.So she wants to move on.I was talking to her on myspace and i asked her why is the boy she likes before me? I tried to joke around saying that is she tired of my sexiness? Yea and she said ';Jamar im ready to go'; Yea and she logged off.There's another girl at my school that i like but not as much as i love her.and she said that ';why don't you go out with her you are always nervous around her'; I have a feeling that she is tired of 2 years and 2 months.We were the perfect couple.She says that she still likes me but there is too much tension.All the girls be getting into fights with her cause of ME. Except for the girl i like other than her.She still likes me.SHOULD I MOVE ON OR SHOULD I AS HER AGAIN WITH ALL THAT TENSION.So, how am i going to get her back or should i move on?
Doesn't sound like the perfect relationship to me.
You deserve a girl who's going to be all about you, and not other guys. If your current girlfriend was worried about you, she'd be trying to work things out.
I would move on...asap. She'll get so jealous, and who knows - you might find a real winner in the end! =DSo, how am i going to get her back or should i move on?
That makes no sense, rephrase your question.
Yep it's time to move on, too much drama in this relationship.
lol. Sorry to joke around but if you're going to get a girl back, do something awesome.
Get a radio and stand outside her doorstep playing love songs.
Otherwise go find yourself another girl and just HAVE FUN don't worry about all that drama crap. She doesn't sound like the type of girl I'd be with. You can find someone who wants to have fun and not be a ***** I'm sure.
Doesn't sound like the perfect relationship to me.
You deserve a girl who's going to be all about you, and not other guys. If your current girlfriend was worried about you, she'd be trying to work things out.
I would move on...asap. She'll get so jealous, and who knows - you might find a real winner in the end! =DSo, how am i going to get her back or should i move on?
That makes no sense, rephrase your question.
Yep it's time to move on, too much drama in this relationship.
lol. Sorry to joke around but if you're going to get a girl back, do something awesome.
Get a radio and stand outside her doorstep playing love songs.
Otherwise go find yourself another girl and just HAVE FUN don't worry about all that drama crap. She doesn't sound like the type of girl I'd be with. You can find someone who wants to have fun and not be a ***** I'm sure.
This kid is really sweet and cute, he likes me but I don't know how I know for sure...
Theres this kid I know and he's really nice and cute. I really like him and think he likes me. All of my friends think that he likes me from him flirting to stumbling across words when he talks to me. But I know boys flirt alot even if they don't like you. I'll tell you the things he does and maybe you can tell me if you think he likes me...
1-When he talks to me, he stammers
2-ALWAYS flirts with me
3-Talks to me out of no where
4-one of his friends said he likes me but I don't know if he's lying.
Thanks a bunch!This kid is really sweet and cute, he likes me but I don't know how I know for sure...
well it sounds like he does.
one thing that gives it away is that if he texts/mails/comments you all the time
or
misses times with his mates or personal time to see and talk to you
i think someone fancies you ;)This kid is really sweet and cute, he likes me but I don't know how I know for sure...
ASk him out and see what he says !
Ask him straight up if you think he's someone you'd like to go out with.
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He likes you.
He does, but he's too nervous to ask you out.
he likes you. but he may not like being called a kid, kid.
he likes you. if he talks to you out of nowhere it is certain.
these seem to be proofs that he likes you. he's probably just thinking of how to properly ask you out.make a white substance foamy
1-When he talks to me, he stammers
2-ALWAYS flirts with me
3-Talks to me out of no where
4-one of his friends said he likes me but I don't know if he's lying.
Thanks a bunch!This kid is really sweet and cute, he likes me but I don't know how I know for sure...
well it sounds like he does.
one thing that gives it away is that if he texts/mails/comments you all the time
or
misses times with his mates or personal time to see and talk to you
i think someone fancies you ;)This kid is really sweet and cute, he likes me but I don't know how I know for sure...
ASk him out and see what he says !
Ask him straight up if you think he's someone you'd like to go out with.
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He likes you.
He does, but he's too nervous to ask you out.
he likes you. but he may not like being called a kid, kid.
he likes you. if he talks to you out of nowhere it is certain.
these seem to be proofs that he likes you. he's probably just thinking of how to properly ask you out.
How to flirt with a boy and do it right?
i want to know how to flirt i'm 16 and want to do it well and to make me ex jealous because he's a jerk
thanksHow to flirt with a boy and do it right?
Walk up and pin a hot guy against the wall, then make out with him in front of you ex.How to flirt with a boy and do it right?
be yourself and you going about it the wrong way. your ex does not want you at all.
show them your boobies
just start touching him(other guy), staring at him,playing with his hands,talk to him alot
thanksHow to flirt with a boy and do it right?
Walk up and pin a hot guy against the wall, then make out with him in front of you ex.How to flirt with a boy and do it right?
be yourself and you going about it the wrong way. your ex does not want you at all.
show them your boobies
just start touching him(other guy), staring at him,playing with his hands,talk to him alot
I need help, quick! Best answer gets 10 points!?
So, I know this boy and he sits in front of me in my french class (we are in grade 8)
A few weeks ago my friend asked me if I thought he was cute and I said ';I guess so, kind of'; and then she went and told this guy that I liked him. After that he kind of freaked out on me because everyone thought we were going out. And then he started saying things like ';Don't look at me'; and ';Don't even to talk to me'; whenever I would look over at him or talk to the guy sitting beside him.
Then a couple weeks ago he started being really nice to me again and then last week he started fliring with me. But when I walked into french class yesterday he wouldn't even talk to me and when he did he only tried to ';get under my skin'; with comments about how I had called this other guy in our class fat (I hadn't, he had) and then I started to flirt with him but my other friend told me I should stop before he got to ';freaked out'; again...
What is up with this guy? Is this how boys flirt or is he a player or does he like me, or what?I need help, quick! Best answer gets 10 points!?
Okay from my experience, this has happened to me before and to my sister. He'll be a sweet lovey dovey when no one is around right? Answer? You never know, he could or couldnt. If he has friends around him then he is probably trying to show off in front of them. He may like you and you might have to just talk to him alone when no one is around because he could just be shy or doesnt want to be embarassed. He doesnt have menta problems, its actually Emotional Problems, because hes not quite sure what to do. Maybe hes never had a girl friend or girlfriend before (there is a difference) and maybe hes scared. Speak up to him and dont be scared.Good Luck!I need help, quick! Best answer gets 10 points!?
You know, I've gotten to the point that when people put ';best answer gets 10 points'; that I don't respond to the question except to put this. The best answer always gets 10 points so why the need to put that there?
He has mental problems. I recommend just staying away from him. He likes to play mind games and hurt people. Stay out of his line of fire. It is sad that there are people like this out there. But there are.
Well, you are in school. So you must be around a lot of boys. You should find one who will treat you with respect. You don't need a jerk in your life.
listen to your friends..
In my opinion.. he thought about you again in this time.. and he is into you now.. But listen to your friends.. they know!!
uhm..how about just leave him alone. Let him come to u. If he doesnt talk to u the fuhk him! And he's just an asshole. -.-';
hormones..raging teen hormones.
this guy definitely not into you. he's just playing you out and threw in a bit of flirting just to teas you. he's still a child himself, judging by his behaviour. they do say that boys will always be boys.
look, honey, you're still in 8th grade. there are plenty of time for you to discover your own true love. you are still young to worry your pretty head with all this love thing. yes, there's no harm in having crushes and i'd say, it's normal to admire a boy at your age. just treat this boy as a friend, don't go serious with him or else you'll end up more confused and even break your heart.
enjoy your teen years and don't worry. everything will be alright.
why dont you get with another guy and make him jealous since hes making you look like a fool. theres a million and 1 people out there looking for someone like you, and same for him. Most likly, when you get in high school, you will date somebody older or cooler. usually the poeple in middle school that are annoying, become dorks in high school. wait for the one who is kinda quiet, but really nice. if i liked a girl, i dont make fun of her. He sounds bi-polar also
A few weeks ago my friend asked me if I thought he was cute and I said ';I guess so, kind of'; and then she went and told this guy that I liked him. After that he kind of freaked out on me because everyone thought we were going out. And then he started saying things like ';Don't look at me'; and ';Don't even to talk to me'; whenever I would look over at him or talk to the guy sitting beside him.
Then a couple weeks ago he started being really nice to me again and then last week he started fliring with me. But when I walked into french class yesterday he wouldn't even talk to me and when he did he only tried to ';get under my skin'; with comments about how I had called this other guy in our class fat (I hadn't, he had) and then I started to flirt with him but my other friend told me I should stop before he got to ';freaked out'; again...
What is up with this guy? Is this how boys flirt or is he a player or does he like me, or what?I need help, quick! Best answer gets 10 points!?
Okay from my experience, this has happened to me before and to my sister. He'll be a sweet lovey dovey when no one is around right? Answer? You never know, he could or couldnt. If he has friends around him then he is probably trying to show off in front of them. He may like you and you might have to just talk to him alone when no one is around because he could just be shy or doesnt want to be embarassed. He doesnt have menta problems, its actually Emotional Problems, because hes not quite sure what to do. Maybe hes never had a girl friend or girlfriend before (there is a difference) and maybe hes scared. Speak up to him and dont be scared.Good Luck!I need help, quick! Best answer gets 10 points!?
You know, I've gotten to the point that when people put ';best answer gets 10 points'; that I don't respond to the question except to put this. The best answer always gets 10 points so why the need to put that there?
He has mental problems. I recommend just staying away from him. He likes to play mind games and hurt people. Stay out of his line of fire. It is sad that there are people like this out there. But there are.
Well, you are in school. So you must be around a lot of boys. You should find one who will treat you with respect. You don't need a jerk in your life.
listen to your friends..
In my opinion.. he thought about you again in this time.. and he is into you now.. But listen to your friends.. they know!!
uhm..how about just leave him alone. Let him come to u. If he doesnt talk to u the fuhk him! And he's just an asshole. -.-';
hormones..raging teen hormones.
this guy definitely not into you. he's just playing you out and threw in a bit of flirting just to teas you. he's still a child himself, judging by his behaviour. they do say that boys will always be boys.
look, honey, you're still in 8th grade. there are plenty of time for you to discover your own true love. you are still young to worry your pretty head with all this love thing. yes, there's no harm in having crushes and i'd say, it's normal to admire a boy at your age. just treat this boy as a friend, don't go serious with him or else you'll end up more confused and even break your heart.
enjoy your teen years and don't worry. everything will be alright.
why dont you get with another guy and make him jealous since hes making you look like a fool. theres a million and 1 people out there looking for someone like you, and same for him. Most likly, when you get in high school, you will date somebody older or cooler. usually the poeple in middle school that are annoying, become dorks in high school. wait for the one who is kinda quiet, but really nice. if i liked a girl, i dont make fun of her. He sounds bi-polar also
I need help, boyfriend trouble, i dunno what to do?
im 15 yrs, i love my boyfriend of 1yh and 5mnths, but im 15 and i want to live, i want to flirt and have fun playing the feild. recently weve been arguing a lot and hes pushing me away.
he gets jelous when i mess about with other boys who im close to and always have been although ive never been out with them. i would never cheat on him, although i have my doubts about him. the more he pushes me away the more im falling out of love with him and moving on to someone else, this other boy flirts with me and we are all a big group of friends.
ive told my boyfriend 1 last chance as i cant keep doing this and im uphappy with us arguing, i feel like an old maried couple.
can anyone give me suggestions on how this looks from a different point of view, and im scared of hurting my b.f?
what do u think?
Answer much appriceated. :)I need help, boyfriend trouble, i dunno what to do?
i've been in your situation. I think that you should give it some time. Spent time together. If he isnt the person that makes you have butterflies in your stomach everyday, then he has to go. I know i still love my bf because after we fight, i might be mad as hell, but when i see him the next time after the fight, i smile. I cant help it.
good luckI need help, boyfriend trouble, i dunno what to do?
it all depends relationships when your 15 dont last so have fun, but make sure its safe fun and when your older you can get serious with someone so best of luck sweetheart
oh and by the way can you answer my question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
I don't think you should have been having a relationship with this boy when you were only 13. Especially if you were having sex.
The jealousy thing makes him sound immature.
You say you are unhappy, so why are you still with him.
Let him go, you will only become more unhappy.
You need to move on, meet other people experience different relationships. The right one will come along.
You will know when you find real love and it will be wonderful.
Just let him know that you like him, but you don't want to be exclusive.
Just be honest! and say ';I love you, but I want to play the field.';
It will work out if you stay honest and don't lie or cheat on him.
Good luck!! :)
Help?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
work around your problems if it was met to be it will work out.if not your young you have plenty of time to find him:)
he gets jelous when i mess about with other boys who im close to and always have been although ive never been out with them. i would never cheat on him, although i have my doubts about him. the more he pushes me away the more im falling out of love with him and moving on to someone else, this other boy flirts with me and we are all a big group of friends.
ive told my boyfriend 1 last chance as i cant keep doing this and im uphappy with us arguing, i feel like an old maried couple.
can anyone give me suggestions on how this looks from a different point of view, and im scared of hurting my b.f?
what do u think?
Answer much appriceated. :)I need help, boyfriend trouble, i dunno what to do?
i've been in your situation. I think that you should give it some time. Spent time together. If he isnt the person that makes you have butterflies in your stomach everyday, then he has to go. I know i still love my bf because after we fight, i might be mad as hell, but when i see him the next time after the fight, i smile. I cant help it.
good luckI need help, boyfriend trouble, i dunno what to do?
it all depends relationships when your 15 dont last so have fun, but make sure its safe fun and when your older you can get serious with someone so best of luck sweetheart
oh and by the way can you answer my question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
I don't think you should have been having a relationship with this boy when you were only 13. Especially if you were having sex.
The jealousy thing makes him sound immature.
You say you are unhappy, so why are you still with him.
Let him go, you will only become more unhappy.
You need to move on, meet other people experience different relationships. The right one will come along.
You will know when you find real love and it will be wonderful.
Just let him know that you like him, but you don't want to be exclusive.
Just be honest! and say ';I love you, but I want to play the field.';
It will work out if you stay honest and don't lie or cheat on him.
Good luck!! :)
Help?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
work around your problems if it was met to be it will work out.if not your young you have plenty of time to find him:)
Can someone please help me?
I have Asperger Syndrome, which makes it hard to understand facial expressions and body language.
I'm 14, so I'm stuck in middle school where my fellow students' personalities are beginning to change. My best friend has gone boy-crazy, but I haven't.
Unfortunately, I'm kind of pretty (or so my parents and friends say) and some of the boys flirt with me but I don't realize it because of my Asperger Syndrome.
Though she knows that I don't realize what the guys are doing, my best friend is getting upset because no one is flirting with her. I didn't even know that she was feeling this way until I overheard her confiding in another friend of hers.
Does anyone know how I can tackle this problem? I don't want my friend's feelings getting hurt because of something I can't control!Can someone please help me?
Sit your friend down and tell her how you feel. if she's your friend she'll understand. As for the friend being jealous (which is sounds like she is) tell her you can't control what people do, your in middle school, you've got a while in school in high school it'll get better!Can someone please help me?
dont worry about your friends
your pretty have fun, flirt they
are just mad because they are flirting
with you instead of them.
I'm 14, so I'm stuck in middle school where my fellow students' personalities are beginning to change. My best friend has gone boy-crazy, but I haven't.
Unfortunately, I'm kind of pretty (or so my parents and friends say) and some of the boys flirt with me but I don't realize it because of my Asperger Syndrome.
Though she knows that I don't realize what the guys are doing, my best friend is getting upset because no one is flirting with her. I didn't even know that she was feeling this way until I overheard her confiding in another friend of hers.
Does anyone know how I can tackle this problem? I don't want my friend's feelings getting hurt because of something I can't control!Can someone please help me?
Sit your friend down and tell her how you feel. if she's your friend she'll understand. As for the friend being jealous (which is sounds like she is) tell her you can't control what people do, your in middle school, you've got a while in school in high school it'll get better!Can someone please help me?
dont worry about your friends
your pretty have fun, flirt they
are just mad because they are flirting
with you instead of them.
Aries guy & taurus girl?
Theirs this aries guy who im intrested in and hes interested in me also. We constantly meet eyes and flirt all the time just the other day my firend said how cute we look together and he said yea but she has a boyfriend , but i kept asking him who is my boyfirend he kept replying you kno who he is. His he trying to find out if i have a boyfriend. Or is it possible that he thinks one of my close guy friends is boy boyfirend because boys flirt with me all the time.
Also are we compatible????
me: sun- taurus moon-aquarius mercury- taurus venus- aries mars-leo
him: sun-aries moon-sagg mercury-pisces venus-aries mars-cancerAries guy %26amp; taurus girl?
i will quote you from my favorite book of all time and it has NEVER and i repeat NEVER let me down. it's sun sign personality guide by robin macnaughton.
he's pushy, you're placid.
he's impatient, you wait for change
he's flighty and you never get off the ground
he sees himself as very exciting and can't wait to tell you all about it but what he wont' tell you about is his temper
he lives for challenges but you like stability
he is freedom loving, you are fearful of time spent alone
he is a many woman man and you're a one man woman
he's looking for fireworks and you're happy with just a little warmth
also, i can tell you from first hand experience that aries men definitely love challenges. once they think they have you, they are bored and ready to move on. so if you still want him after everything i've quoted above, never let him think he's caught you. always play hard to get and make him do the chasing. he lives for the chase. mark my words. add me to your contacts and let me know how this turns out
Also are we compatible????
me: sun- taurus moon-aquarius mercury- taurus venus- aries mars-leo
him: sun-aries moon-sagg mercury-pisces venus-aries mars-cancerAries guy %26amp; taurus girl?
i will quote you from my favorite book of all time and it has NEVER and i repeat NEVER let me down. it's sun sign personality guide by robin macnaughton.
he's pushy, you're placid.
he's impatient, you wait for change
he's flighty and you never get off the ground
he sees himself as very exciting and can't wait to tell you all about it but what he wont' tell you about is his temper
he lives for challenges but you like stability
he is freedom loving, you are fearful of time spent alone
he is a many woman man and you're a one man woman
he's looking for fireworks and you're happy with just a little warmth
also, i can tell you from first hand experience that aries men definitely love challenges. once they think they have you, they are bored and ready to move on. so if you still want him after everything i've quoted above, never let him think he's caught you. always play hard to get and make him do the chasing. he lives for the chase. mark my words. add me to your contacts and let me know how this turns out
Boys and Flirting??.....?
ok so whats up with boys always teasing girls. There is this guy that i like and i think he like me too and hes always taking my stuff and when i try to get it back he will put it behind him or somewhere like that where i have to reach over him to get it. and hes ALWAYS making fun of me and saying stupid stuff. I asked one of my really good guy friends why he keeps doing it and he said thats how guys pretty much flirt. so is he flirting???Boys and Flirting??.....?
lol yeah, it is, a lot of my guyfriends do that:DBoys and Flirting??.....?
Sounds like it. I have a friend like that too xp
lol yeah, it is, a lot of my guyfriends do that:DBoys and Flirting??.....?
Sounds like it. I have a friend like that too xp
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