Thursday, October 28, 2010

Being confident around boys. please help!?

well im a swimmer and i go to alot of swimming carnivals...

boys flirt with me all the time and say im hot and ask for my number. when they do that i always go really shy and quite... how can i be more confident? thankyou xoBeing confident around boys. please help!?
Hello! They want your number and say you're hot? You should be bubbling with excitement not shying away. The best thing to do is to make eye contact, smile and if you want them to have it grab a pen and write your name and number and then walk away. Always leave them wanting more. At first it's hard. No one can teach you how to be confident you just have to find it in yourself. Ever heard the expression ';fake it until you make it';? If you act confident (not stuck up that's something else entirely) eventually you will be it. Just tell yourself to look in the guys eye and smile you kind of have to just force yourself at first. If that doesn't work find a guy friend or family member who will practice role playing the conversation with you.Being confident around boys. please help!?
Guys are really chicken when it comes to girls, they are always frontin. Be yourself, and be even more foward and confident. It will flip the script and change the role. Girls are way more intimidating to boys, especially girls in bathing suits. If guys are hitting on you, then don't fret, you're probably a looker. Smile a lot, and just know that you're not going to get accosted for speaking your mind to a boy.

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