Thursday, October 21, 2010

How can I teach my 4 year old how to flirt?

I want to teach my 4 year old daughter how to flirt so that life will be easier for her. She is very pretty but pretty shy. I want to teach her to flirt with boys her age so that she can get things. I don't mean flirting in sexual way of course, I mean it in a innocent friendly way.How can I teach my 4 year old how to flirt?
children learn by example so you need to show her what it is she should be doing and she will follow. I think you have an excellent idea! What a great mom you are looking out for her like that wanting her to have the best!



Best of luck to youHow can I teach my 4 year old how to flirt?
wow flirting should be the last thing on her mind at her age...what is wrong with you?

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you need a lot of help, flirting at 4? thats insane and you say some people are pervs? wtf is wrong with you? she shouldnt even worry about that till shes like 13!

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ROFL at the age of five my dad taught me to wink at girls that i think are ';nice'; and say you look good xD

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Wow i hope she has a dad that teaches her she doenst need to flirt to get what she wants. Instead you should teach her to work hard for what she wants.
Wow, those are some really high goals in life for your child. *sarcasm*. Flirting doesn't making anything easier, it just gets you into a big mess of guys.
wow....get a life. If you want your daughters life to be ';easier'; then get her an education...not on a road to slutdom!





Are you really a parent? one word...Trojan
She doesn't need to flirt at age four! She'll end up being a whore! Let her grow into it and learn her own way, don't try to sway her to be something she wasn't meant to be.
';GET THINGS';? Boy, do you ever have the wrong perspective on life.



You KNEW you'd be in for some tongue-lashing with your question, didn't you?
There really is no difference. At four years old she does not need to worry about this issue. Wait until she is older and she will be fine. Why rush this issue? Let her be a kid.
Dont teach her to flirt at 4, if you do you'll going to regret that because of problems later on. Just let her be 4 and have fun as a kid, dont try to make her gro up too fast. She can learn to flirt as she gets older.
heres a better idea... teach her to study and apply herself to education so she can get things for herself... and so she isnt just another dumb chick who cant do things for herself and has to ';flirt'; to get there...
That is just DUMB! She 4 for crying out loud! This is a prime example of a parent who has a child but does not NEED a child. Just let her be 4!
Honestly, I dont think that as a mother of a four year old that should be your top priority for her. Socialization may be good, but at four flirty really isnt necessary. You should be teaching her things like county, abc's, and spelling. You could take her to the park to SOCIALIZE her. that is all you need to do at this age. She needs a mind of her own, and not to ever have to rely on someone. It seems to me, that you have no faith in your own daughter if you think she needs to FLIRT to get what she wants.
So u want to teach your daughter to flirt so she can get the things she wants........u cant be serious!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A 4 year old has no business flirting with strange men or boys. Life will be miserable for her if she flirts. She'll be spreading the wrong message to boys that she is easy. Teach her to have respect for her body and to say NO to boys who try to get in her pants and seduce her for their peverted lusts. What kind of a woman makes her daughter out to be a sex object at the age of 4?! I was shy and I got along in life just fine.
wtf?



why would you want to

teach your 4 year old

daughter how to flirt?



';I want to teach her to flirt with boys

her age so that she can get things';

yeahh, cause we really

need more girls like that.
It's like I'm watching the movie Idiocracy all over agian. Sad.
WTF You are completely sick. Flirting is never in an innocent and friendly way; it ALWAYS has a sexual undertone... Otherwise it would just be called being friendly, rather than flirting.



It is wrong for a 4 year old to flirt, and it is wrong to flirt to get things.



Besides, what boy her age has anything to give her?



You are a sorry excuse for a mother.
SHES FOUR!

WHY !? would you want to teach your four year old daughter how to flirt?

This is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard.
Oh god, I can just picture your child in the future....gonna be loving guys and not paying attention to school. can u learn to be a better mom next time?
You are kidding right? You are totally demeaning your child by thinking the only way she can get things is from getting them from other people, rather then being smart enough and resourceful enough to get them herself. I am hoping that you are a really bad troll and this isn't real.
when i was four i didnt even know what crush meant and i still thought boys were a disease!!!
I hope to god u are not serious!!!!!! If you are serious call CPS and turn yourself in right now and spare your child of your ignorance!
Please give away your 4-year-old (and any other children you may have) to loving families and get your tubes tied.
Get things from boys? Innocent friendly way?Are you for real? Flirting does lead to a ';sexual thing'; some guys expect something in return.



Don't you learn anything from watching the news? You're setting your daughter up for a bad situation, she will flirt with the wrong guy and end up a statistic.



If you want to teach her anything it's independence and how to achieve something on her own, but you're a bad example of that obviously.



There should be a common sense test you have to take before you are allowed to have children the world would be a much better place.



You asked and this is what you get - WAKE THE F*** UP!
You know, maybe when she's 16 and she's still clueless you can sit her down and say babe this is the way you deal with boys. But when she's this young, Just let her be a kid! Kids that age aren't even interested in boys! Let alone flirting with them!

Wait about twelve more years.
A kid is going to be a kids. If they are naturally shy why would you want to alter who they are for your own personal gratification? When she is older I am sure she will get what ever guy she chooses. If you teach her young to flirt are you also going to teach her young how to sell her body (let her wear tight clothes to get attention not be a hooker.) Somethings come naturally for people for a reason. Let her be her and dont press her into being something she is not.
Make her watch all of Britney Spears music videos, get the Carmen Electra Striptease DVD and make her do that, and then make sure you get her a good reliable bottle of mascara.



Oh and make sure she gets a Lindsey Lohan tan, totally cute!!!
You're kidding, right? If you're serious, you need to get on Dr. Phil.
The real question is what happened to you when you were 4? Some shrink's going to make a pant-load off your issues...
Just tell her to watch her slutty mom, lead by example. Hopefully you will disgust her the way you have disgusted us and she will learn to be the upstanding citizen you are so obviously not.

Please don't dress this child in slutty little clothes to go out and play. Dress her like a little girl, not a ho. Save that for yourself, maybe you'll find a man to help you take care of yourself and your kids.

Here's a thought though, teach her to read and write and all that good stuff so she doesn't have to have a man to get what she wants. She can get it for herself.
Have fun being a grandmother when she turns 14!!!
Instead of concentrating on teaching her how to ';flirt';, maybe you should teach her to be kind to everyone.

Teach her to smile at people and take an interest in them.

Teach her to share and be helpful.

Teach her to be considerate of other people's feelings.



These things will help her more in life than trying to flirt with little boys to give her things. I think that is the beginning of a slippery slope ahead.
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