Thursday, October 21, 2010

How to flirt with boys?

i need some good ways to flirt that are not to embarissing and slutty im only 14 so nothing to grown up


thxHow to flirt with boys?
some ideas...





-hug them before you leave for class, and if they ignore you, you could be all sarcastically cute mad at them until they give you a hug


-blow kisses, but make it funny. smile after you do it


-smile


-bump into them every now and again


-ask them questions, that are meant for them, of course other people are going to answer, but they know you were asking them


-do not, and i repeat, do not do that stupid fake laugh that chicks do when things that they say aren't funny but were meant to be. instead, throw them a stick and be like... ';um... yeah not funny.';


-oh and say good night when you text him or talk on the phone, it's cute and gets him thinking





numero uno rule: be you, if none of this is your style, morph it so that it is.


this are just some of the things i do. :)





have fun!How to flirt with boys?
Be confident. Studies show that confidence is the key to looking good and feeling good. To gain confidence, try writing a list of things you are good at and things that you like about yourself. For instance:


My pretty eyes are complimented often.


I have a great personality.


I can get along with people easily.


I have a lot of friends





Also, a great way to gain confidence is to join a sport that you are good at, or want to excel in. Not only will this boost your self-esteem, you are guaranteed to make new friends! Boys love when girls are oozing self confidence, but they also like a girl that is humble, so don't get a big head.





Break the touch barrier. The touch barrier is an invisible 'thing' that stops you from interacting physically with a crush. To break it, touch him whenever you can. While talking to him, casually touch him on the shoulder or playfully go up behind him and pull his hood up. You could also come up behind him, cover his eyes, and say ';guess who!'; cutely. Be careful, though. These things (if used extensively) can be annoying to him.





Get to know him. Though we can be quick to want to date random hotties, said hottie could be freaked when you ask him out without even a conversation first. To get a conversation started, talk about him; everybody likes talking about themselves. Talk about your interests, jobs, families, friends, pets, favorite things, you name it. If he is in the same sport as you, or a sport you want to join, voila! More time with Mr. Right.





Slowly start giving him the signs... Joke around with him, to start!


Make him laugh and feel himself and comfortable with you. If you are bold enough, ask him to go out with you and your friends to a movie, lunch, or just hanging out at the mall or local park. Look him more in the eyes, but make sure that you don't look at him strangely; this will turn him off. Smile at him when passing in the halls, or give him a playful high five. A few compliments will show him that you are into him.





Find the right time... for him to ask you out. When you are with your friends, the guy might feel awkward to ask you to 'talk privately'. (Wouldn't you?) If he is shy, ask him yourself! The worst thing that could happen is rejection; and when that happens, move on! Its time to go boy hunting again. If he says yes, congrats! It is all you from here on out.
If you want casual flirting because you don't want him to know that you like him, because you're afraid that he might reject you then I would suggest you talk to him during pass bys say ';Hi'; and smile, hug him after you leave for another class if you have one class together you know, pull on his ID card, nudge him, push him softly when he makes fun of you, smile a lot, and always make time for the guy. Play footsies, look at him at his eyes. Hm mm, that's about it.





But if you want hardcore flirting, then laugh naturally when he says something funny, steal his pencil or something for awhile, sit on his lap, and yeah pretty much whatever the big slut at your school does that you hate.





:)





Good luck!
ummm... talking is a good start.





guys don't want girls to be fake, and that's a turn off usually. try laughing, or telling jokes. talk to him about music, or movies, or something you think he's into. you can also try comments like ';is it hot out here, or is that just you?'; or something to that affect. you can act like it's a joke, but he'll get the message.





if that's too bold for you then smile at him a lot, laugh (not loudly, but a lil bit) when he jokes around, and try to talk to him.





if the guy is your age, go with the second idea... if he's 16-17, go with the first.





a good start to is a conversation is something you know he wants to talk about. did you hear him and his buddies complaining about that stupid test the math teacher gave? start it like ';i can't believe ms. johnson gave us a quiz! we only learned this yesterday, honestly! what the heck?'; and he'll comment. keep asking questions, one's that are like ';what do you think'; or something where ';yes'; and ';no'; aren't acceptable.





best of luck! and be careful girl!
if you do not want to be a slut then think about school. think about college. get a degree. do some good for your self.you sound like your goal is to become a slut.no escaping it.if you want to flirt with boys.
Dont. You look like a slutty little cumdumpster whore and ppl wont respect you. They will just want to screw you and it may be hard for you to lose that reputation so i say don't flirt bcuz it makes you look pathetic.
well i am 12 going into seventh grade, and i know that if you you just be yourself and the right person will come to you that's the good part of being the girl!:)lol.
look at him right in the eyes and bite your lip lightly from time to time, then he wont be able to take his eyes off of you.from time to time in conversation lightly touch his hand or arm. works every time :)
Omg, I'm 14 too :D lol.





Well just don't be fake.


-Be funny.


-Be charming :)


-Be easy going.


-smileee :D





GoodLuck


Hope this helps :D
joke with him, find something funny that happened invovling you both and bring it up at funny times. smile and laigh at his jokes, and when your laughing touch his arm with your hand. :)
be yourself. hang around him a lot but not to when its creepy. flirt a little by making jokes or taking part or starting awkward moments.
just look at them a lot smile and wave when u see them or wink





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SMILE LAUGH GIGGLE ...and play around with him joke around and he will get the idea you are flirting with him..also compliment him
Just say what you're thinking.


';Your hair looks nice!';


';I like that shirt';


Call him on the phone sometimes. Text him. Tell him goodnight when you're talking late.


Do what come naturally.
Smile and look and him very innocently . Always have a good attitude.! Touch him and tickle him .!Joke around with him
Just be your self and have fun. If they don't like it, then they are not good boys.
just be regular.. ask wat he liks to do for fun..to go out to that place sometime..let him ask..not you..smile all time your around them say hello anytime you see them and make them feel special..
Be yourself.
giggle smile alot gently nudge him
be funny, and laugh alot.
grab him by the balls
hump him

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