Friday, November 19, 2010

How come boys don't treat me like God or like a princess???

I am a nice person and smart. I treat others with respect. I listen to other people when they have problems. Most boys just flirt with me, and let me know through the signals they send that I am cute, pretty girl. But, why don't they treat me with genuine respect or treat me the way they SHOULD? What should I do? Any help?How come boys don't treat me like God or like a princess???
This is probably going to sound rude, its not meant to though. But are you easy? I have several guy friends who say they don't treat the easier girls with respect because they don't think she deserves or there is no point to waste it on her. However, if you aren't, which I am not saying youare, they are probably just assholes. Try branching outside of your 'type' and try seeing another type of guy for awhile and see how things go with that. Sorry if that all sounded mean.How come boys don't treat me like God or like a princess???
Maybe because you aren't a God or a princess. But they should respect and treat you kindly. You'll find the right guy.
Cause your not you spoiled brat. Who would with that attitude?
Look into your self-esteem for this one. If you project that you think you deserve respect and think that you're worth being treated well, you will be. If you look or act like you're not worth it, you won't be treated well.
Because you aren't a god/dess or a princess...however, you didn't say they treated you disrespectfully. Just because you treat someone well doesn't mean they'll be interested in you.





Have patience.
Maybe step back and evaluate your definition of respect and how you 'should' be treated.
THERE IS ONLY ONE GOD HONEY. LOOK AT YOUR QUESTION. THAT IS WHY PEOPLE DON'T TREAT YOU WITH RESPECT.
Still a kid...
Um...you shouldn't be treated like a God or a princess. No woman should. Women should be treated as equals, not as something to be admired and put on a pedestal. That just sets us back about 50 years. It objectifies us. Just work for being an equal in a relationship, not a trinket.
well ur name says beautiful girl and u say ur cute pretty and smart. MODESTY im sure u mite be a great person, but then cute and pretty and beautiful shoudnt be part of ur vocab so much.
Do you really want to be treated like a princess??? Respect is different, it is an understanding of you and your needs. Being treated as an equal partner in a relationship is far more important. Men learn to respect with age. Just hang in there, your day will come.
They don't because they aren't trained to treat or even think of females that way -- most of them at any rate. Our society is very anti-female ... the music, the ads, the movies and TV shows ... and a lot of girls don't demand respect from their boyfriends. Domestic abuse is higher now than it's ever been.
first of all they don't treat like GOD or like a princess because you are not GOD nor a prinicess.





Men treat you as you demand and clearly you are settling and not demanding.


By demanding I don't mean literally men treat you and respect you as you respect yourself which is demonstrated through behaivor.
may be unless you are dead before they will realize that they lost a true princess but not God.
like god? ... DONT PUSH IT ...
There's a difference between being treated with respect, and being treated like a princess or goddess. You're entitled to the first, but the second is a bonus/gift/perk and can be something of a mixed blessing.





Just because you're a good person doesn't mean all eligible guys are required to like you, date you, or spoil you.


Also, remember that guys have a very different style of communicating than women do. Women tend to show their feelings through talk and listening; men tend to show it through action and shared activities. So pay attention to what they DO, not just what they say.
That is a very conceited question. You should not expect to be treated like God or like a princess just because you are nice, smart, cute, and pretty. You should expect to be treated like a person and that's about it.
beautiful girl with a boy's avatar, what's up wit dat? Any who, just be yourself and don't try to hard, okay? The harder you try, the farther you push people away. Stay true to yourself and don't be a whiner.
well first of all you are not god or princess so expect to be treated like one. and if these boys arent treating you with justsimple respect then you should let them know!!! i hope u are treating them with respect! in order to get respect you got to give respect!
because you are too full of yourself.





you need to take yourself down a couple notches, or have someone else do it for you.





Sorry this is not the answer you were looking for, was it? but its the truth. Why am i assuming this? Heres my reasoning





1. your name is beautiful girl. honestly.


2. You EXPECT guys to treat you like ';god'; or ';a princess'; this means you assume yourself to be god and a princess


3. you say that you are a cute, pretty girl, and lots of guys flirt with you.


4. You call yourself nice and smart





this is called ';conceited';. You may be really pretty, or you may not be. No matter how you look though, nobody likes someone thats conceited or cocky.





Try being self confident, and not insecure. Try being a little more mature. And dont expect every guy to treat you like ';god'; or ';a princess'; because to be honest with you, your not god, and your not a princess.





To answer your question, some people are not respectful, and thats how life is. I'm not sure how you want them to treat you though - whats wrong with flirting and talking with you? do you want them to bring you flowers, or prey to you? That doesnt happen in the real world, thats only in the bible and in story books.
yeah, get off your high horse and be realistic. if you want someone to worship the ground you walk on, go get a dog. if you want someone to respect you and treat you the way you DESERVE TO BE TREATED (take that as you may), then maybe the dog kennel is the wrong place.
Maybe they are intimidated by your beauty. Maybe they assume you are ';taken'; because why wouldn't a beautiful girl be taken? Then again, flirting is a natural 1st response. Respect comes when people learn of your character. Although I believe you should start with respect and then let the person keep it or lose it. But thats just me.
When I read your problem, I was really suprised. You said in the question that you are a nice person, but you don't think that you have any genuine respect from other people. You are honestly too self-centerd there. I think that you should try not to think that you are nice, but try to continue to help people to solve their problems, which is a really nice thing to do. belive me, cos i'm a boy.
Two answers for you:





#1: You are picking the wrong guys





OR





#2: Your expectations are too high and can never be met





When you say a princess or GOD, do you mean that they buy you things and pay for everything? Or that they are nice to you?


If it's nice to you, then you are picking the wrong guy





If it's they pay for everything (create a relationship by masking it with material things), then your expectations are too high or your a gold digger and spoiled.
well. Because you're probably not. Ladies don't treat me like a sex symbol because, I'm a nerd prankster obnoxious loudmouth.








Why do you want them to treat you like a princess so bad? Thats not genuine respect. You treat your grandfather with genuine respect. You treat a princess with awe and adoration. I think you're getting your signals crossed.
You sound a bit conceited and that is not a godlike quality. Even if you were to cultivate humility it would not get you to the level that God is EVER! Continue to respect others and be nice if thats what you are really doing. Be patient you do not need a boy in your life. Be confident in yourself but not OVERLY confident and you will be alright.
the bible says you shall put no other God or thing b4 him so you should never want to be treated like God because he should always come 1st. now I believe everywomen should be treated like a queen with the upmost respect but never like God
you are probably a snotty b*tch and thats why

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