Sunday, November 21, 2010

Please help people laugh and call me pregnant?

im 12 and obviously not pregnant. im overweight and i have a droopy pot belly that makes me look pregnant. sometimes my friends say i look pregnant and laugh at me, so i laugh too and pretend to make it not bother me. im 151 lbs and im 5'4, and im actually quite popular. i have alot of friends and boys flirt with me but i feel ugly when they call me pregnant. it really hurts my feelings. when i ask people how many months pregnant do i look, they say between 4 and 6. sometimes i cry and i dont want to stand up to them because they are not bullies they are my friends. i know that are not trying to hurt my feelings and they dont want to but i feel so ugly that sometimes i try to cut myself. i tell my friends that i cut myself but they dont say anything theyre just like why in a playful voice. i cant tell them, and i dont want to. im so ugly. help me do something about this? i really need help.Please help people laugh and call me pregnant?
Okay hun, im 16 and i now weigh 345 pounds... Yeah its alot... You sound just like i was when i was 12. Its so embarrasing. But try to loose weight. If you feel comfortable with yourself then what other people think of you wont matter. They dont put food on the table for you and they sure as hell dont wipe ur *** for you.. So dont worry about what other people think of you. Im sorry to say it, but these people dont seem like true friends to me. TRUE friends wouldnt talk to you or about you like that! They would probally ***** slap the person/people who do. Its just not right! Do not cut yourself. Its not worth it, Ive done it. It solves nothing at all. %26amp; if the wrong person sees it, it can land you in a crazy person place (not saying tht your crazy) but it really doesnt solve a thing. I know its hard but try not to care what other people think of you. Just try loosing weight. You will feel alot better about yourself =))Please help people laugh and call me pregnant?
lose weight... eat healthier and exercise. do some sit-ups... common sense.
u should maybe talk to a doctor and loose some weight if you want
Awwww it's alright. Just lose weight or be yourself. Friends like you for who you are, not looks. OIf they harass you tell them it's hurts. Its easy to lose weight. Im 13 and weigh 110. Not even overweight. I dont get made fun of but you seem like a beautiful wonderful person if boys like you ^w^. Focus on ur good qualities and dont give in!
Why would you ask your friends how many months pregnant you look ? Doesn't that just make them think about it ?



Get new friends.



Stop taking tings so seriously.



Try going for walks every day.



Peace.
talk to your doctor. maybe see a psychiatrist for childhood depression because i hear that's common now.
oh my gosh im soooo sorry. they are so mean and they are not your true friends. you should tell them to stop and it makes you feel bad. or if you want to fix the problem try losing weight. see a doctor or ask your parents about it. or if you have an older sister ask her b/c personally i would be more comfortable with my 15 year old sister.(im 13)
um do not cut yourself, talk to your parents and get help, eat healthy and exercise. It's not hard to lose weight at a young age
You need to tell someone. Seriously, they obviously are NOT your friends. These are true bullies. That's incredibly mean, no matter how overweight you are you should never ever say that to someone. That's so awful. I can't even comprehend this.our not ugly. You are beautiful. Get new friends. Tell an adult. Stand up to them. Don't let them drive you to the edge. Please.
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They arent your real friends. And you just pretend it doesnt hurt you but dont laugh. Walk away with your head held high and leave them be. Tell them how you really feel and maybe itll work out. Try to loose some pounds. Work out a little andwatch wat u eat. But dont feel bad. And dont cut yourself! That wont help you. People would call u emo! Another problem? Lol, get someone to help you loose wait and to express your feelings. A family member i wood sudjest. Hope you feel better!
Tell your parents whats happening. They'll go to the school and sort everything out, you probably thing you'll get teased and whatnot for going to your parents and/or teachers for help but you wont, and seriously its the best thing that you can do. Tell the kids teasing you to p*ss off and pull their heads in and say that your obviously not pregnant and that their being stupid. You probably havent responded like this before and they probably wont like being talked back to or yelled at by you so they will stop.

Goodluck
You are still a child at 12 and that you are obviously and that something that you can't help.Keep your head up and tell them how would you feel if you was in my shoes?And your friend going around looking at you saying that you are pregnant when they no that you got this problems.Tell them how you feel about them picking at you, don't hold it in let it out.
omg stop cutting yourself!..i would say talk to a counselor..but counselors do tend to make matters worse..but parents are the only ones you can trust,....or teachers(teachers are better)..if people say anything anymore..donnt say nothing just walk away. even if it means to sit by yourself or anything..anyone who makes those stupid comments are not your friends.. now please dont do somehing drastic either like staring yourself to get skinny...get in some sport or naything if you want to loose the wight. ugh i hate younger kids they're so imatture!!..



(watch when they grow up..every single one of them thats calling you prego are going to sufferfrom not being to be able to reproduce..when they're older..!)







%26amp;%26amp; girl no ones ugly..unless your the most rudest person and bad in the world..pretty isnt about looks..its whats on the inside. they're prolly jealouse of something you have and they don't..i used to get teased..because of my green eyes..which now i think they're beauiful!!!!..and im really short like 4'9';...and used to call me oompa lumpa..but i don't care anymore..i know that im a true person..and not messy or mean like everyone else..im in the 9th grade..and there's still so many imature people!!..now i walk the halls..and i think talk your mess..im way pff better without yall..and not to brag but im pretty popular myself..hehehehe!
darling, i understand and i have been there.



don't hurt urself first of all. i did that. it doesnt help. you are going to roll ur eyes and say ';what does she know?'; but i know a lot more that you do at this moment doll.



now first, to deal with ur friends, pull them aside one by one and ask them to stop. let them know it really makes you feel self concious and that it's a mood killer when you're hanging out. they'll probably say theyre just joking (because they are) and if they do say that, let them know that you understand they don't mean it, but it really hits you in a sensitive place and would appreciate it if they could lay off that subject. Im sure they will understand if they are ur friend. try not to make a big deal about it either



second, i can tell what you REALLY want is to be in better shape and appear better. which is totally understandable. so here are some tips i can offer for you



walk. everywhere. i honestly can tell you from experience that it makes you feel and look better. Also, don't get so down on yourself. if you stay active and eat well, you'll feel better.



also, if you want some styling tips, layers are great and so are dark rich colors. especially since it's winter now!



of course, the most important thing is love yourself. youre popular. and your smart. be confident. if you appear confident and don't let things get to you small comments like that won't mean anything



stay beautiful

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