Thursday, November 11, 2010

How do i not feel bad about not being popular!?!?

im in this class and its all popular people nto even joking. i feel like such a loser. . all the popular boys flirt with popular girls and it makes me feel bad that im not popular. it makes me feel like, ';whats wrong with me? Why dont boys like me? Why dont they want to be my friend? why are they so much better than me?';How do i not feel bad about not being popular!?!?
my chemistry class is exactly the same, keep your real friends close



here's some advice form a youtube user: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FdMbhNt5R鈥?/a>How do i not feel bad about not being popular!?!?
they are not better than you



if u dont feel bad about being popular ur confident and know who u are



peole overlook the meaning of popular, if you are friends with many different types of groups then u can be



but seriously the world does not revolve around them



be who u r, the majority is not popular and they rock
You shouldn't crave their attention... You should stick with the friends you have. Because you know that they like you for who you are and the popular crowd is just stuck up and dont care about the feelings of others. Seriously if you did become one of them i guarantee you would start missing your real friends
ummm... get over it?



Feel good that you aren't alone? Feel good that SOMEONE will talk to you and who gives a crap what their social status is. Popularity is silly anyway.



On the rare occasion somebody talks to me at school, half the time they're whispering ';freak'; or some other mean sentiment to their friends right in front of my face. Sorry I don't have that much sympathy.
Trust me, being popular in school will not get you anywhere in life. You can always make friends with other people. Besides, making friends with popular girls usually is not the best choice- they can be very deceptive.
Start and unpopular club where you can get with others in your boat and all talk about it, and find solutions.
here is a tip. dont give a butt. if they r mean kick there butt.
To be honest .. i think people are better off not being popular.

You shouldn't really care. :)
wrong section

grow up
transfer out of the class. maybe u'll feel better.
heres how to be popular:

1. step out of your comfort zone and engage with people you wouldnt normally engage with.

2. be yourself. no one likes a mimick. be the best version of yourself you can possibly be.

3.girls look up to girls who know exactly what they like, who they like, and why, because it shows that they know themselves, which is appealing. they dont ask for anyone elses opinion, because their opinion is most important. so focus on yourself and just go with what you like. trust yourself.

3. the most popular people are friendly with everyone. they build a huge support group. be friendly with everyone, including your teachers, your classmates, and anyone who's a little bit nice.

4. don't try too hard. popular people don't put too much conscious effort into doing anything. its natural and effortless. they simply are themselves. If you're desperate to be popular, it will show in your actions, and people will think you're a poser, or worse, a freak. It helps if you find a group of friends who you can easily be yourself around.

5. look approachable. smile and giggle ALOT. people are drawn to happy people. if you are the one who's constantly laughing, mingling with people, and are obviously happy, people will be dying to be around you.

6.have a good posture. arching your back is very attractive. it puts emphasis on your breasts and butt, and you'll percieved as highly feminine. do it when you sit and stand (dont over do it though)

7. look after yourself. to be popular, you need to always smell great, have your make up done (changing your makeup style often), and have your hair styled. use lots of accessories like bags, scarves, jewelery etc.

8.Always keep in mind the definition of popular: many people consider you a friend/admire you

9. ALWAYS be positive. if someones trying to bring you down, remember being happy is the best revenge.

10.Don鈥檛 believe the hype. You don鈥檛 have to be mean/rude/snotty to be popular. It is the worst thing you can do! You can be friends with whom ever you want. That what being popular is. Stay true to the things that are most important to you, and the rest will come with ease.

11. every popular girl is popular because she's unique in a good way. shes never a copy of someone else. thats just boring.

12. be really playful all the time. if someone pays you out, laugh at yourself. if you do this, they cant take a dig at you, because you've shown them that you dont take yourself that seriously, and when they try to bring you down, it only makes you happier.

13. dont gossip. it'll ruin your reputation and people will think of you as a b.tch. if someone knows you gossip alot, they probably wont open up to you and they'll feel uncomfortable when your around.

14. the fastest way to become popular is to make friends with popular girls/guys. but if not, just work on becoming popular, and then they will end up making friends with you.
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