Sunday, November 14, 2010

How to girls become good flirts with guys?

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how to be good at flirtingHow to girls become good flirts with guys?
How to flirt with a guy



1. There should be repeated contact. Eye contact is very important, it tells that you are sincere. On your first, he will make sure that it is really him that you are flirting with. With your second, he knows it's him and is all giddy about it and on your third, he might be going over to your table now, you should express interest by introducing yourself and starting a conversation.



2. Whisper. This usually gets their attention. Avoid shouting. Check your voice; it may sound like a grill.



3. Don't stay in a group. No man can bear a rejection in front of a herd. Also, he may feel that he can't approach you because of your friends.



4. If you are not interested, be polite. You can always refer him to one of the girls. At least, you can practice your confidence in meeting other people and you just met a potential friend!



5. Give clear signals that you are not just making fun out of it. Make sure to check your choice of words too, your flirting might sound a little sexual instead of a friendly flirting.



6. Be positive. People like to be with people who are cheerful and has a positive mindset. Feel good about yourself and everyone, and they will feel good about you.



7. Buddy system. This is used a lot by female groups going to parties or drinking place. Walk through a group of men and let one of your friends check out who is eyeing on you.



8. Become more irresistible by showing a little of you, a little flesh in the legs is not that bad, wear something that can emphasize your great features.



9. Give him the winning look. From head to toe, nod with approval and flash your sweetest smile.



10. Lastly, don't forget to be YOURSELF! You will not enjoy any moment of it if you are playing somebody who you're not supposed to be, stay focus and be proud of who you are.How to girls become good flirts with guys?
1. Be conscious of your appearance. Possibly the most important rule to remember when flirting with any guy! No, this does not mean you need to look like a stunning doll. Not every guy wants a Barbie girl. It means that you should be elegant and clean looking. You don鈥檛 need to be drop dead gorgeous. Be sure that you shower and clean yourself regularly. You should also wear deodorant, clean your ears, brush your teeth and hair, and you could try to paint your nails. Also, try to wear your hair in a style that makes you feel pretty and compliments your facial structure and use a perfume that smells sweet, but is not too overpowering. Being conscious of your appearance also means you have to have some level of fashion sense. You don鈥檛 need to have millions of expensive outfits to look cute because some simple fashions never go out of style. Try sporting dark, slimming jeans, a simple solid colored tank or cami, some chunky bead necklaces, or a cute sun dress. Or if you wear uniforms, just go with the outfit that hasn't been laying on the floor for a couple of days, and remember to accessorize!

2. Don鈥檛 go overboard or you鈥檒l look like you tried way too hard. Also, don鈥檛 wear clothes that reveal too much, most guys like breasts but that will attract other male attention, aka almost all males, not necessarily men you want to be looking at your chest. this can be awkward and disgusting. Makeup is supposed to touch up your appearance, not hide it. Some eyeliner and lip gloss are all you need to play up your appearance and make you look fabulous. But don鈥檛 get too caught up in your appearance, there are plenty more things you need to know.



3. Achieve the Perfect Personality.

Whenever you talk to your special guy think of the three S: Sweetness, Sexiness and Smarts. Sweetness comes with vulnerability, shyness and kindness. These three factors are especially important because they are what make your hottie feel especially masculine. To act vulnerable and shy try tucking your hair behind your ears, smiling charmingly and batting your eyelashes, but make sure that you practice so it doesn't look like there is something in your eye. When ever you see him in the hall ways, be sure to give him a half smile and a real flirty look. Sexiness is confidence. Remember not to be too confident though. That may come off as self-absorbed and snobby. Smarts can fit into the sexiness category. Being smart is totally sexy. Sometimes, even just knowing the most random, irrelevant facts will be sexy.

4. Act Right

There are multiple ways to act flirty, here are some of the best suggestions:



Compliments-Be sure to compliment them in a casual and friendly way on things that are true. Sometimes people will make up compliments just to talk to someone, but that is the total wrong thing to do. You really should compliment on things you really like, so you sound more sincere naturally.Some times complimenting their family or other things they are proud of works.



Intense Eye-The intense eye is a trick that models spend years perfecting. You must give your hottie an intense stare that is both sexy and mysterious at the same time. BUT DON'T BE CREEPY. Also, try staring at the floor and slowly raising your eyes, looking directly at him. Once you have caught his attention, give him a sexy but subtle smile. You should try practicing the look in the mirror, and if completed correctly you should feel as sexy as a celeb.



Eyelash Batting- This trick is one of the oldest tricks known to woman. It gives you a sweet and vulnerable factor, which guys love because it make themselves feel powerful. Remember to practice this if you intend to use this technique.



Hair Flip and Twirl- If you want to catch a guys attention, flip your hair casually over your shoulder, twist it and then untwist it, tuck it behind your ears, or run your hands through it.



Soft Giggle and Smile-According to polls, a laugh and a smile are the sexiest things a female can wear. If you perfect your smile and laugh to be seductive and sweet, you will find some great results. Practice forcing a natural smile and laugh, it can help through awkward situations.



Magic Touch- You can learn to brush a guy in such a way that you send tingles up and down his spine. Casually tap him while laughing, rest your head on his shoulder if you鈥檙e tired and hold his hand when you're nervous; it will give him a sense of manliness and you a touch sweetie-pie, no pun intended. NOTE: A perfect, subtle way to touch him without just reaching up and grabbing his arm or something is to brush an imaginary fuzz off of his shoulder or something, or fix his sweatshirt string, or pick an imaginary hair off of his shirt. Totally subtle and initiates comfortable boundary-crossing in an innocent manner.

5. Approach him and start a conversation, but don't make it too obvious that you like him. If he approaches you, look him in the eyes
Know how social dynamics work. If you learn pick-up then just use the guys' moves right back at them - which a lot of them they adapted from things they saw from girls.
Flirting is simply taking an interest in another person, and not necessarily in an overtly sexual manner. Great flirting does not involve anything more than talking about things that you both enjoy, like pop music, sports, movies and current events. What talking does is it demonstrates to him that you are an informed, interesting, and fun person, which, in turn, should stimulate his interest in you as a person.



Think about the reasons why you would want a guy to be attracted to you, and then act accordingly. You want to pique his interest in you as a person. Not as an object. Agreed? If not, then I can't be of any help to you.

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